Did I get my ex back good with my words?

[Anonymous]

She was like ‘you’ll never find a girl as beautiful as me.’ Angrily.

And I was like, ‘there’s literally endless pretty girls in the world and you think you’re the best one?’

Good / fair point

Bad

Okay

Other

[SueShe]

Above all it shows that you don't have the maturity to let it go and to have to have the last word in a vain argument.

It would have been totally to your advantage if you would have refrained from answering anything to her claim but you could not. You could not because you had the feeling that if she did have the last word, you would feel like the losing party in your argument.

What you should have done is to swallow your pride and let her believe that what she pretends is true. She would probably have learned the hard way during her next break up. However, you demonstrated that you are par with her when it comes to behaving not very adultlike.

Actually, I really wonder if you are indeed in the age group 18-24. I actually think that both of you are rather early teenagers because adults would certainly not behave the way both of you did.

What did you gain from telling her that sentence? Did it make you feel better? Did it make you feel as if you won something?

Neither one of you did win anything. You are both losers in respect to lacking judgment and maturity.

[Asker]

I like the idea of beating people at there own immature dumb game.

[Asker]

*their

[SueShe]

Does that make you more mature?

[Asker]

I was just telling her a fact as she’s was so arrogant about herself. My maturity shouldn’t be judged on one comment haha

[PrettyPriya]

Eh, somewhat immature. You should have just walked away from the situation. Let her be the immature one (which she is too) and don't stoop to her level. It isn't worth it. Unfortunately, sounds like it is too late. Just keep that in mind next time.

She just immaturely lashed out because you were going through (I imagine) a bad breakup. People say stuff they don't mean. Of course their are plenty of beautiful girls out there and I am sure you will find one.

The point is, no need to point it out. Just like there was zero need for her to say what she said. I find it best to be the bigger person or adult and just let the insult bounce of you than resort to their level of immaturity.

That is what you did. Now, you are both acting like children rather than keep that in your mind forever that she is an immature child and you were the adult. Again, too late.

[Asker]

Sometimes you give as good as you get. We weren’t compatible and she’s saying I won’t get better.

[PrettyPriya]

You know though that isn't true though. Definitely sounds like you were not compatible. Best you two went your separate ways.

[Asker]

I mean if I didn’t say that then it would be ok my mind that I let her disrespect me.

[Anonymous]

You sound very immature.

[Guy13]

Not so much

[Guy13]

Silly: if in front of you: Really now, I was at Pretty Paws 🐾 Dog Show this weekend over in Pretty Town. There were all kinds of Pretty people there…and I didn’t see you in town or at the show. Then bark at her and walk on…

[Avicenna]

Yeah