If he is in the wrong why won't he reply to me now?

[Anonymous]

almost one year ago I met this guy online and things haven't always been easy between us. about three weeks ago me and him got into a fight and he called me a hoe, the next day he texted me saying "I'm sorry" and ever since he hasn't said a word. I texted him once saying the things he said were hurtful and today is his birthday so I once again texted him "happy birthday, have a happy day. beso" he read the message and didn't even say thank you. why do you think is that?

[Guy13]

He probably needs distance to process the whole thing.

[Asker]

process what? I was the one being offended lol

[Guy13]

It is a guy thing... handle it or move on. We do not operate like you or any of the other women !!! You keep pressuring him and Ghost is around the corner.

[Asker]

i'm not pressuring him since not once I asked him to reply. since it's guy thing like you said I wasn't aware of that and thought it wouldn't hurt to try to get some sort of opinion from others.

[Guy13]

It’s likely, having done it, that he’s working through “I’m so stupid guilt”. For me, flowers on doorstep got me out of that 💪

[Avicenna]

Maybe he thinks you haven’t forgiven him

[Asker]

you know what maybe it's best that he isn't replying because although I felt like it would be nice to wish him a happy day I truly shouldn't be talking to him. thank you!

[Avicenna]

I think you’re right

Thanks for the mho

[Bethany22]

He doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with you

[Asker]

lmao what? that's not what I'm looking for in him so that's fine either way

[spartan55]

So he is still in the wrong even though he apologized? Did you apologize?

[spartan55]

I don't even know why I asked that...🙄

[Asker]

he acknowledged his mistake but still what he did was wrong. the damage is already done you know? it's ok I get how it could be confusing

[spartan55]

So you actually didn't accept his apology, and are still holding a grudge A YEAR LATER? Oh, and you still expect him to chase you around too lol... yeah fuck that, no wonder you haven't heard from him.

[Asker]

no no me and him met almost one year ago but the big fight happened a few weeks back. I accepted the apology, of course it sucked to be called that since a lot of other tense stuff happened before that but I accepted the apology. it's not like im expecting him to chase after me since im the one initiating contact again

[In_Trance]

He's butthurt

[Asker]

why would he be? he was the one offending me

[In_Trance]

You'd have to ask him that