Why didn't she reply?

[Adeniyi]

I've been talking to this girl on MySpace for a while now, we got to know each other better.One day I decided to give her my cell and told her to call because I won't be online for a while,but she never did(been 3 months). I tried to talk to her again to reestablish our bond and sent her message but she never replied.What went wrong?

[Annette83]

Well, you didn't do anything wrong. You weren't pushy, because you waited for a while until you gave her your cell number. It is totally normal that you would want to talk with her in person and ask to do that.

I'm guessing that there is some reason that she feels more comfortable talking online than in real life. Maybe she is overweight or shy. Or she could just be too hard on herself... She might feel like she comes across as a more interesting person online. The alternative is that she has a boyfriend already. She might have felt like it was OK to be talking to another guy online, but not in real life.

Maybe you could have another try at contacting her, just in case she has been busy or away and hasn't checked her messages. If she doesn't respond, I would drop it. There are a lot of people out there who live their lives online and feel weird about having real life relationships. Don't waste your time with these people if you are looking for a real-life relationship. Maybe in future, you could weed these people out by asking to talk in real life a little sooner? Good luck.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

maybe she didn't like you because you were trying to hard...or just wasn't interested. it's ok you're not the only 1...who's life sucks.