Why didn’t he respond to my “bye” message?

[Anonymous]

yes it was hard, I liked him somehow
but after two months I realized it’s time to accept that he isn’t interested that much and doesn’t see me more than a friend of his.
so I told him in the last messages good luck I am happy we met and bye he replied to the first two messages but didn’t say bye.
I won’t respond even if he is willing to message me again.
what do you think of his behavior?

[Liam_Hayden]

Women say these things to break it off. They also say these things to test the guy's interest, to see if he will commit to more.

If he has experienced this before then I see three likely possibilities.
1. He is upset that this happened.
2. He is feeling manipulated
3. He doesn't care.

In any event, a response might seem pointless or counterproductive to him.

[OlderAndWiser]

Someone sends the last message and it doesn't get a response and then you wonder what that means.

If you had been talking for two months, why didn't you call him? If you had talked on the phone, you wouldn't have this question.

[itsmicaelaxo]

I don't know if he understood that you meant 'bye' as a definitive goodbye. So that's maybe why he didn't say anything. If he notes your abscence and texts you than you have your answer. If he doesn't text you, I don't think he cares. You said you want to move on so do it. Don't get hung up on hope. If he liked you you would know!

[Asker]

Yes, I agree. He always made me doubt, I don’t want the uncertainty anymore

[itsmicaelaxo]

They say that if you're uncertain it's because he's not that into you. Why would you want that type of relationship anyway? It's best to have someone who DOESN'T make you hopeful and uncertain... He's got to be 100% certain about you!

[Anonymous]

Forget about him and let another guy replace him for you

[Asker]

Yes, I deserve better✌🏻🙏🏻💔

[Opinion Owner]

You can do it girl💋

[Anonymous]

Well what do you expect? You said bye, why are you waiting for him to reply? He doesn't owe you anything.

[Asker]

😢I know

[Anonymous]

Saying bye, usually means it's okay to go. But it could just be that he's not happy with the situation.

[andreasderjuengere]

What I think about YOUR behaviour: It wasn't about him; it was about YOU.

[Anonymous]

Either he is shocked by your text
Or he really didn’t care, to begin with.

[Chanel1981]

What exactly did you say and how do you know him?

[Asker]

I exactly said those 3 sentences I’ve written above
We were classmates

[Chanel1981]

I see. So he responded to the glad we met and good luck portions. Unfortunately you can't make someone care so best to just move on.

[needadvice1245]

He's not happy with your decision obviously

[Seket]

The flame's long gone indeed. Please just move on.

[IceyGengar]

You're not over him.