The whole thing is fake, and a waste of your time, and his.
The entire POINT of being in a relationship is to spend time together, IN PERSON, and to share your lives with each other. That's not happening over the phone. A relationship is a whole lot more than a text conversation.
Your life is precious. You have a limited amount of time, and as a woman, your youth is EXTREMLY valuable and extremely limited. If you ever hope to have a family, this is the time when you should be finding a partner, IN REAL LIFE, IN PERSON. Are you going marry you phone? You've let almost two years slip by on a fake relationship with someone you've never even met in person. You've never held hands, or gone on a walk together, or shared a meal. What do you think you are getting out of this?
Of course, I know the answer: you are trying to get the emotional support without having to take any risk, and trying to get a higher-status guy than you might be able to get if you only look locally. But the truth is, you don't HAVE this guy, and you aren't in a REAL relationship. It's all an illusion, and you've essentially scammed yourself.
It's your life, and you can live it as you want, but when you are older, and you look back at how you spent your precious youth, you're going to REALLY regret wasting all that time on a guy that you never met.
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Are you open to meeting them? I think you'd really enjoy that. It can take your feelings to another level.
You're already taking it serious, going as far as you already have, good job. But I would try and meet up with this person. In person and online can be quite a different experience.
Video chat
Tell someone where your going
Know the car plate
Be safe enjoy
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