How to let a guy know theyre being horrible in a subtle way?

[Monalisa77]

so i can't go accusing but is there anything i can say infront of them that will be affective? basically theyve been blanking me for a week (already posted about this) after we really got on (see previous q's) and i dont know whats gone wrong so its really bugging me..

[Anonymous]

That's like asking asking what to say when a woman is acting horrible. If you have to point it out it's pointless to say anything. She's either decent amd corrects it herself or she's just not decent.

[Monalisa77]

Im fed up of guys treating us this way

[Opinion Owner]

So pick better guys.

[Guy13]

Direct by action the right way... subtle movement. I like it this way... do it !!

[spartan55]

What would you accuse him of?

[Monalisa77]

Playing me

[spartan55]

How did he play you?

[Monalisa77]

Teased, showed extra interest. When i start making it obvious i like him he completely blanks me. he's the hottest guy in the room it doesn't make much effort to get a girl to like him

[Monalisa77]

/stared i meant to add

[spartan55]

Hold on... have you even talked to him?

[spartan55]

Staring isn't making anything obvious, you should know that.

[Monalisa77]

Im worried i will say something i shouldn't, this staring was quite intense. He admitted to his mate who told me he was winding me up on purpose

[spartan55]

So, I will guess you haven't talked to him... like at all?

[Monalisa77]

I tried on Friday and he still blanked me. What am i to say without looking stupid?

[spartan55]

Okay, well twisting off on him, and getting pissed is definitely NOT the course of action.
Let's review: saying he 'played' you is ridiculous and FALSE. You haven't even spoke with him, being played implies you given false expectations for the relationship that didn't end up happening. Don't attach his name to that. Where is the contact with him occurring? Work? School? Junkyard?

[Monalisa77]

You can still be played without a relationship happening. I liked a guy in college who did everything to get my number, he then blanked me. Turned out he was gay, it's probably happened before that guys subtly tease/flirt with me but have no intention of being genuine with me. He is making things awkward, u can't go from encouraging someone to go for their job to completly blanking them without valid reasons

[Monalisa77]

Its only been this week he's blanked me, we got on really well and had intense chats, he showed proper interest in me that very rarely other people show, talked to me even when i wasn't talking to him. I was away one day he was in so i dont know what happened

[Monalisa77]

Work

[spartan55]

OK, what are you talking about? Encouraging someone to go for their job?
As far as being played we will just disagree on that. It's far too dramatic a term in this case.

[spartan55]

Okay, maybe he has other stuff going on this week. Did he ask you on a date?

[Monalisa77]

If someone makes out they like you when they don't then i think thats being played.. He is higher up than me, so one day i didn't bother him so i went I've been too busy to talk😂 and he was like u should do our job, making out i was better than the job im doing. He was only teasing with me, loads of other girls and he didn't do the same with them n he did admit to doing it

[Monalisa77]

No thats what i was hoping, i wanted to get to know him outside of work