How to end a situationship in a healthy way?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy “without a label” for 4.5 months now.

I’m probably going to get a lot of hate for this but yeah I blocked him. I guess you could say I did really like more than our friends with benefits situation. But he seems to not wanting anything serious which I understand.
I just blocked him for peace of mind with no explanation. I found a woman’s hair (not mine) in his bed and I just decided that was not it for me.

He came to my house the other night when I wasn’t home and asked my roommate to tell me to call him.
His been trying to call me using unknown numbers and other phone numbers but I haven’t been answering. I’ve blocked him a week ago, I do feel bad but it just seemed like the right thing to do at that time.

I just want to break it off with him but I hate confrontation because of my anxiety. I really need help on how to tell him.

Thank you all in advance.

[DubiousIntentions]

Seems to me you already did tell him with the ghosting. But you can always text him to get it across again. Calling won't help, you will probably just wind up in an argument. Seems to me he like the friends with benefits part and doesn't want to give it up. Tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. Now, I imagine, he will make promises that he doesn't plan to keep just to get you back into the sack. Tell him it's done, finished, and you don't want to put up with it anymore.

[spartan55]

Why would you get into that type of relationship to begin with if that's not what you wanted? Makes no sense.
You are handling the breakup like a middle schooler would. Anxiety...🙄if that's the case then you shouldn't be in any type of relationship.

[Pudsmucker]

You didn't what's right for you. A lot of people have anxiety with confrontation. Good luck in the future