I began a relationship with an old childhood friend that went to prison for over 30 years. We had been in a very close emotional relationship for the past 2 years. He finally got out of prison ( he's 48) and i got cold feet. I wasn't there when he got out and i broke things off because i just wasn't sure what kind of man he would be and i have a child to think about. I finally went and saw him and we connected again. He told me he felt so close to me , not awkward like he does around others. We had a great time. I know he's been with girls he meets but they seem to be one night stands. I finally told him i would move and be in a relationship with him and he told me no! He said i broke his heart and he couldn't trust me. Now since i came back home from seeing him he texts me a lot on his days off and even from work. He tells me he loves me. Im going back to see him in two weeks and he planned fun stuff. However, he will ghost me, completely ghost me all night , for a day and then he pulls me back. I know he is emotionally immature, he's gotta be but i still think he's playing me? I have stopped texting him and i wait to respond to his texts now. Im very confused. he's a good man, great job and very kind. I just am unsure of his motives. he's only been out 3 months and i wonder do men learn how to play a woman that fast?
Guys, Is he just playing me?
