How come I am forgiving and kind and considerate but people are cold and harsh and unforgiving toward me?

[anonbrunette99]

Like guys I rejected I stay friends with I am there if they need someone I’ve even tried to answer any questions they had regarding why we weren’t right. Friends that have stole from me hurt me ruined my birthday insulted my family I forgiven and given the benefit of the doubt

guys that rejected me avoid me won’t speak to me stay out of my way don’t even want to give me the time of day friends that I had conflict with completely ghost me and ignore me no matter how much I apologise or ask to talk things out over a phone call they just leave

.. I’m told I’m too kind and too forgiving but my love is unconditional it means forever and I try my best to never ever give up on someone if I think it can be resolved to me human connection is beautiful and isn’t something that should just easily be disposed of i pray I find people are willing to fight for me as I am for them

[RealMarek]

Unless you have been in a serious relationship with a guy, the last thing most men want to do after they are rejected is to have lengthy discussions about it or spend a ton of time with the girl who turned them down. You need to let them move on.

[Mark987]

I've learned since the pandemic.. that majority of people are very selfish and only look out for their best interest. I am like you I will always help someone and will listen to someone who needs advice. You have to learn to look out for yourself first.. I used to do things for others before myself all the time, which costed me friends, girlfriend's ( by taking advantage). Look out for yourself first and spend time on you before anyone else

[Den1971]

That's how you are built

[Guardian45]

Ignore them. Be the Best you possible!