We recently got engaged a few weeks ago and everything has been perfect.
My fiance works at a uni/at a call centre helping people fix their electronics, whilst on call this 19 year old women/man phoned in needing help to my fiance who's 25 and whilst on call they started talking about other things and she opens up majorly and mentioned loads of things that she/he enjoys doing which are similar to what we like to do during our free time.. she then mentioned 'she's a man' and has MR on their profile and although they look like a women still want to be referred to as a man, so I'm assuming they're either transgender or still has a Penis - doesn't matter either way.
Anyways they add my fiance on a social and they invited him out to brunch for cocktails etc, my fiance has mentioned that I'd be coming with him and mentioned multiple times to the person during the call that he's engaged.. if he ever met up with them I'd come along and I trust that this is definitely the truth, however I can't help but feel uneasy about the situation.. my fiance said there is a chance this person may like him or has other motives but it doesn't matter as he's with me and wouldn't ever do anything or continue the new friendship If they made him uncomfortable.. plus that their a 19 year old indian transgender who genuinely just seemed lonely and probably wanting friends, he then proceeded to show me the chat between them and offered to show me the voice call as all of his calls are recored at work, I declined but he hasn't been secretive about it all.. then recently he said he probably won't ever meet up with them was just being polite during call, now I know I'm more than likely being insecure, and I will never invade his space and tell him who he can be friends with. However I am anxious, and I have BPD so trust is hard for me and I'm currently going through an episode - can you give me some advice if you think this situation is fine?
