Guys, if girls are very Cold & in a rush to finish a conversation with a guy, is that a sign that he's being disliked for his appearance?

[Anonymous]

This often happens with me if I'm shopping at a grocery store or at a electronics store

The female clerks/cashiers would be very cold but also in a rush to get me out of the way compared to everybody elsewhere there chatting & conversing

[Rockstarrrrr]

It's either that or they find you too awkward... Or both

[Asker]

So it's a myth that girls are "intimidated" by attractive guys?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Weird flex lol... No it's not really a myth.. Everyone and not just girls gets a little intimidated by the person they like or find attractive...

[Asker]

Not a flex lol

a lot of female cashiers/clerks get very & I mean VERY cold/serious/straight to the point with me & some have done it with a voice "tone" similar to snapping your fingers... to hurry it up

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes you said that and then went to a complete different question about whether girls are intimated by attractive guys or not lol... And about that I told you... It's either about that.. Or they find you too awkward... Or even worse... Both... I'll let you decide considering we obviously don't know what you look like...

[Rockstarrrrr]

Intimidated * lol

[Asker]

Just out of curiosity

How do "alpha" or "top guys" view guys like us who are on the unattractive scale & don't get much respect from the opposite gender?

How are we seen socially?

[Rockstarrrrr]

I don't know lol... Not into the whole alpha and beta shit...

[Hellraiser1984]

Yes. I have that experience as well. Screw them.

[Asker]

How were your experiences?

[Hellraiser1984]

They just didn't seem to want me to talk to them. Like I was beneath them. Given most of these girls were probably teenagers they would bat an eye at anyone but a buff football player with a sports car and rich parents..

[Asker]

My cases were different

They were randoms that would either get very bitchy, cold, or scowl if I passed by them in the same neighborhood we lived in

a lot of them were older woman (35-50+) as well

I was 15

[KrakenAttackin]

Most likely.

[Asker]

So I'm being low key demonstrated that I'm "below" their level?

But WHY go that route in the first place when drama could endure?

Why was it done to me but not others?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because women thrive on attention and she wanted your attention until she didn't.