Why do I get more attention from other men if I"m with another guy?

[Haha456]

I always get more glances / looks from men whenever I stand with another guy

[DaveJord]

When I was younger... like in my teens and early 20's... I would say yes to this question. Women that were in relationships with other guys or had relationships with other men, just seemed more approachable and date able to me. Instead of trying to start with someone who never dated or was never with anyone before and having to go through that process with someone the first time, that has never gone through it before with anyone else. Yes it was more appealing to me. Because at that age relationship never lasted long, so when you saw how she acted when she with the other guy it made you think that maybe later, when the relationship ended you might make a play.

But at your age 31... I mean I guess guys who have not reached that next level of maturity may still think that way. I mean they see you with a guy, and see how happy you are, they might think that they could achieve that or want that with you as well.

I think by end of my late 20's I personally did not see things that way anymore. But the truth is my friends' dated women and met a lot of women through my freinds and their friends of freinds. And yes, there was a level attraction between a man and woman... and when you know your freinds is most definitely going to mess it up with that woman, you make a mental note. You put out a little effort to be nice to her, because you know that your friend is cheating on her and when she finds out she will break up with him, and if she is as great as she seems, well you want to make sure she knows without knowing that you're good guy.

At 46, I don't think anything like that anymore... I have lived and learned. How you meet and date women in your 40's doesn't compare to what you did in your 20's and 30's.

[dustybiker]

When a person is happy they are attractive.

[Haha456]

um... no im not happier

[dustybiker]

Okay