Why would he say one day he wants friends with benefits and then suddenly wants to have a relationship?

[Anonymous]

He changes his mind very quickly. When we done arguing, no contact.
Months later, he wants to try again, we agree friends with benefits and then he wants relationship again.

Then no contact and it all starts again.

[kylee2437]

You are allowing him to play these games with you. If a guy started out as friends with benefits with you, very rarely will he be open to a relationship

[Asker]

Well it started as dating

[kylee2437]

So it regressed, so that’s your answer right there.

[Asker]

He did something because of that I don't trust his intentions. That's why I ask the question here

[kylee2437]

If you don’t trust his intentions, why even talk to him? Lol that says something about his character in general

[Asker]

Tell me more what you mean by that about his character

[kylee2437]

You don’t trust him, so why put up with him in general?

[Asker]

I am that kind of person who try to give someone more chances than they deserve. Hoping that person and I won't have bad blood between each other.

[kylee2437]

@asker you don’t owe him anything good when he has not brought anything good to you.

[Venting101]

I say let him go, he clearly doesn't have a clue what he wants.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because it works. Not to be blunt, but he’s getting what he wants right?

[Asker]

Haha wow, you are actually right. I never thought about it like that

[BarryLiverstone]

The ladies who have answered are right. You break the pattern and block him. He has no motivation to stop using you. It will be bad blood if you continue

[SexyRedd1966]

That's toxic move on