What does it mean when a man says you're too much too handle? What gives him motives say so?

[redlady1002]

[AdithyaR]

I can think of two reasons
One being plain incompatibility. Am extroverted outgoing girl might be too much energy for an introverted indoors kind of guy.
Second is the more toxic situation where some guys can't handle it when their partner is assertive and basically say it to manipulate her into thinking that she's doing too much by setting boundaries or asserting herself.

[lightbulb27]

if you have more going on than I can deal with (ex. 2 sets of triplets and difficult X's), or you are emotionally too intense.

[Anonymous]

This happened to me recently. Turns out its because im way to active for his passive self. We ended up working through things and finding the middle ground.

[Rosexøxø]

Too much to handle means he has met his limit.

Both move on 👌

[kylee2437]

That’s when you say “well go find less” many men that aren’t ready for an assertive woman that knows what she wants will throw that in her face to gaslight to distract from the fact that he isn’t that good of a man

[Guy13]

Was that a good tone or negative tone statement?

[redlady1002]

.. on a very serious tone

[Guy13]

He is letting you know he’s evaluating your overall You. He’s trying to work that person into his life and balanced living.
He has bonded. No guy considers this kind of thing unless he’s thinking Vision.

You will have to let him reveal his Man-Up take care of you abilities. He’s really close to putting clearly planned strategies into action.

Sometimes, it’s already done snd it’s a plea for allowed imperfectness. You’re lots…I’m going to make mistakes kind of thing.

I would never do this aloud unless I was done…going to settle with you. THAT’S me though….

[bamesjond0069]

That means you're difficult. Act like a brat. Loud. Never satisfied with anything. Demanding.

Yuck. I agree. A woman too much like that is bad news. Better to have no woman than a difficult woman.

[spartan55]

What gives him motives? Uh you? This is a nice way of saying you are a pain in the ass.

[LiamJHayden]

Either she is too high energy for him, or she is too much drama for him.

[Iron_Man]

It means exactly what he’s talking about. You’re just too much for him.

[Anonymous]

Simple; just leave each other and find someone that deserve u

[Anonymous]

that you're out of control and you need to learn some self control

[Jaylenn]

Maybe you're a drama queen?

[Anonymous]

Means he’s weak and you’re too high energy

[Danny_dan92]

You’re difficult