Anatomically? The only problem with this question and it's a small one is the fact that I haven't been elected to speak on the behalf of all men. So without any specifics being asked I submit my basic stripped down answer. Companionship and a variety of mutually agreed upon sexual encounters.
I can only speak for me, but I know most men mostly agree with me. I look for in women the following: being interesting (cool hobbies, interests, and life goals), a job that isn't awful (no OnlyFans girls, strippers, or prostitutes, drug dealers, etc.), not fat, health conscious, and not an asshole. That's pretty much it for generalities. The specifics vary from guy to guy. But most of us don't stick to our preferences stubbornly if we find a good girl.
I can't speak for other men but I can argue how I'd think.
Depends on what for...
Hookup: - Average or above looks (5 ). - Somewhat stable mindset.
Relationship: - Team-spirit. - Understanding. - The want and ability to grow and improve. - Open-mindedness. - Some commonality to how I myself think life is best lived.
I like women in classic movies. Soft, cool, calm, respectful towards men, submissive, loving, caring, etc. A classy woman with wifey characteristics. Women like this make me feel I should marry her right away, take her home and make babies with her.
Men tend to look for 9 things in women: 1. Kindness 2. Passion 3. Ambition 4. Gratitude 5. Sense of humor 6. Independence 7. Self-esteem and confidence 8. Intelligence 9. Humility
When it comes to finding a life partner, men often look for qualities like trust, loyalty, physical attraction, a good sense of humor, intelligence, and emotional stability. Other traits that men may find attractive in a woman include confidence, ambition, kindness, and independence. Ultimately, each man will have his own unique preferences when it comes to the qualities he seeks in a woman
In a long-term partner I'd look for qualities that suggest she will be loyal partner/wife and potentially a good mother, plus a strong physical attractiveness as she would be my long-term lover too.
Value, to elaborate I personally look for a woman who values my time as much as I value hers someone who brings more to the table than a pretty face, and someone who values my input as I value hers. Now looks are also important for me because to be honest Iāve dated without standards and learned the value of having them.
strong feminine but not a feminist. Loyal, respectful, nice, nurturer, and loving. unfortunately the majority of the women in the west lost all that. I dont think ill find that here but if i become a passport bro then i know i will find that type of women somewhere else.
*Long, deep inhale* Intelligence, confidence but not cockiness, adaptability, physically affectionate, loyalty, honesty, commitment, able to disagree respectfully, open communication, goals, not a gold digger, doesnāt talk to anyone she slept with before, mutual emotional support, no Onlyfans, or history of Onlyfans. Sense of humor, respectful of those that she doesnāt even know.
Honestly I just want someone who kind and loving, accepts me for me. Is fun to be around and try new things and have adventures with. Someone I can talk to about everything. And it's important to have some form of attraction to them.
I really appreciate you opening up. This is gold, to all the women seeing this post. This is what men want. Not a cat and mouse chase that's the biggest turn off for men. You need a circle of like minds it's tough to find. You have set yourself up to a standard anything less than that doesn't excite or interest you.
I know but some men are not all and all men are not the same. It's funny the women are after some.. Ahh... This is getting into some psychological shit. Anyways, just change your perspective. Maybe you'll find one day who's bored of Tom and Jerry š.
For me she has to be funny, good looking and caring, honest and a good communicator, she has to accept me for who I am and not want to change me into something Iām not.
I donāt know about other guys but for me I look 1. Personality. Like the girl can joke with me and vise versa also sheās a fun person to be around. Also some similar interests 2. If she looks to have a successful future. Like for example she works, goes to school, etc. 3. This last one isnāt too much of a personality thing i guess but the clothes she wears. Like Iām not a fan of sexual outfits or whatever I like more chil outfits like sweatpants and sweatshirt or stuff like that
home: sweatpants and sweatshirt work: sweatpants and sweatshirt restaurant: sweatpants and sweatshirt award ceremony: sweatpants and sweatshirt TV: sweatpants and sweatshirt
would you like your ideal woman to wear something other than sweaties?
Everything I guess. Of course 99% of the time the first thing a guy notices is looks, but in terms of actually keeping my attention, you need to be intelligent and have good moral standards.
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not a man sorry. but iām on the fugly side and no this is not a poor attempt or get compliments.. iām unattractive in most lighting lol and i still have my fair share of relationships and flings and majority of them are hotties.. and itās because of my dry humor and i use deadpan a lot. i donāt state my political opinions, donāt cause or escalate fights, i dress casual (mostly sweats and crocs) and still pull. itās personality babes
She doesnāt have to have alll, expect afew (*): polite , kind (to my family and friends *) , understanding & accepting*, patient, and into nerdy stuff. Body wise (not morbidly obese) boobs and butt can be any shape or size.
@Bellona there you go if that makes you happy thatās all that matters :) I hope you can find someone that accepts you for you (just as I hope there is a woman out there that will accept me for me. and I accept her).
Honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, appreciation of the arts, and attractive to me. It would be nice if we shared common interests and were willing to discuss this out rather than argue a lot. I'm introverted and would love for her to make the first move. In my experience, it never worked when I looked.
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Anatomically? The only problem with this question and it's a small one is the fact that I haven't been elected to speak on the behalf of all men. So without any specifics being asked I submit my basic stripped down answer. Companionship and a variety of mutually agreed upon sexual encounters.
I can only speak for me, but I know most men mostly agree with me. I look for in women the following: being interesting (cool hobbies, interests, and life goals), a job that isn't awful (no OnlyFans girls, strippers, or prostitutes, drug dealers, etc.), not fat, health conscious, and not an asshole. That's pretty much it for generalities. The specifics vary from guy to guy. But most of us don't stick to our preferences stubbornly if we find a good girl.
I can't speak for other men but I can argue how I'd think.
Depends on what for...
Hookup:
- Average or above looks (5 ).
- Somewhat stable mindset.
Relationship:
- Team-spirit.
- Understanding.
- The want and ability to grow and improve.
- Open-mindedness.
- Some commonality to how I myself think life is best lived.
I like women in classic movies. Soft, cool, calm, respectful towards men, submissive, loving, caring, etc. A classy woman with wifey characteristics. Women like this make me feel I should marry her right away, take her home and make babies with her.
Men tend to look for 9 things in women: 1. Kindness 2. Passion 3. Ambition 4. Gratitude 5. Sense of humor 6. Independence 7. Self-esteem and confidence 8. Intelligence 9. Humility
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When it comes to finding a life partner, men often look for qualities like trust, loyalty, physical attraction, a good sense of humor, intelligence, and emotional stability. Other traits that men may find attractive in a woman include confidence, ambition, kindness, and independence. Ultimately, each man will have his own unique preferences when it comes to the qualities he seeks in a woman
In a long-term partner I'd look for qualities that suggest she will be loyal partner/wife and potentially a good mother, plus a strong physical attractiveness as she would be my long-term lover too.
According to a lot of studies, a figure in which the waist is narrower than the hips and a cheerful disposition.
Guess who has a small waist a big hips ;)
I guess I missed the memo š
Value, to elaborate I personally look for a woman who values my time as much as I value hers someone who brings more to the table than a pretty face, and someone who values my input as I value hers. Now looks are also important for me because to be honest Iāve dated without standards and learned the value of having them.
strong feminine but not a feminist. Loyal, respectful, nice, nurturer, and loving. unfortunately the majority of the women in the west lost all that. I dont think ill find that here but if i become a passport bro then i know i will find that type of women somewhere else.
*Long, deep inhale* Intelligence, confidence but not cockiness, adaptability, physically affectionate, loyalty, honesty, commitment, able to disagree respectfully, open communication, goals, not a gold digger, doesnāt talk to anyone she slept with before, mutual emotional support, no Onlyfans, or history of Onlyfans. Sense of humor, respectful of those that she doesnāt even know.
AND THEN, and only then, looks.
Personally: Non-smoker (not negotiable); Inteligence; Emotional maturity; attractivness; smaller breast size; self-confidence
Whatās a small breast size?
My preference is for anything between a 28A to 34B
Damn that's small
I've all of these! Except small boobs. Sad.
@anon1903 I am negotiable on that. As long as I don't find them intimidating, you'll be fine.
Haha okay āŗļø
Honestly I just want someone who kind and loving, accepts me for me. Is fun to be around and try new things and have adventures with. Someone I can talk to about everything. And it's important to have some form of attraction to them.
Same man
This! 100%
I really appreciate you opening up. This is gold, to all the women seeing this post. This is what men want. Not a cat and mouse chase that's the biggest turn off for men. You need a circle of like minds it's tough to find. You have set yourself up to a standard anything less than that doesn't excite or interest you.
@stoicity Funny because some men play the cat and mouse game
I know but some men are not all and all men are not the same. It's funny the women are after some..
Ahh... This is getting into some psychological shit. Anyways, just change your perspective. Maybe you'll find one day who's bored of Tom and Jerry š.
Sadly it's me who's gets stuck with people playing there games and crap like that.
For me she has to be funny, good looking and caring, honest and a good communicator, she has to accept me for who I am and not want to change me into something Iām not.
I donāt know about other guys but for me I look
1. Personality. Like the girl can joke with me and vise versa also sheās a fun person to be around. Also some similar interests
2. If she looks to have a successful future. Like for example she works, goes to school, etc.
3. This last one isnāt too much of a personality thing i guess but the clothes she wears. Like Iām not a fan of sexual outfits or whatever I like more chil outfits like sweatpants and sweatshirt or stuff like that
home: sweatpants and sweatshirt
work: sweatpants and sweatshirt
restaurant: sweatpants and sweatshirt
award ceremony: sweatpants and sweatshirt
TV: sweatpants and sweatshirt
would you like your ideal woman to wear something other than sweaties?
š yeah nothing but sweats and sweatshirt and if not wearing sweats not my girl š
A woman with a great personality that loves to smile, have dates in the park or near a beach, a woman who loves to talk, etc.
what if she has no teeth and has an ugly smile? (since her attractiveness does not matter.)
Everything I guess. Of course 99% of the time the first thing a guy notices is looks, but in terms of actually keeping my attention, you need to be intelligent and have good moral standards.
not a man sorry. but iām on the fugly side and no this is not a poor attempt or get compliments.. iām unattractive in most lighting lol and i still have my fair share of relationships and flings and majority of them are hotties.. and itās because of my dry humor and i use deadpan a lot. i donāt state my political opinions, donāt cause or escalate fights, i dress casual (mostly sweats and crocs) and still pull. itās personality babes
She doesnāt have to have alll, expect afew (*): polite , kind (to my family and friends *) , understanding & accepting*, patient, and into nerdy stuff. Body wise (not morbidly obese) boobs and butt can be any shape or size.
is just obese okay?
@Bellona yeah as long as she doesnāt push it to morbidly obese.
Outside of pregnancy of course
Ok thatās good because I was thinking about going to the gym.
@Bellona there you go if that makes you happy thatās all that matters :) I hope you can find someone that accepts you for you (just as I hope there is a woman out there that will accept me for me. and I accept her).
Honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, appreciation of the arts, and attractive to me. It would be nice if we shared common interests and were willing to discuss this out rather than argue a lot. I'm introverted and would love for her to make the first move. In my experience, it never worked when I looked.