Guys, Why would a confident guy be nervous around a woman?

[Anonymous]

[elew4too]

He may be confident in every realm besides women. Maybe he’s had a rough dating history or he’s been heartbroken in the past insofar as he doubts his abilities with women moving forward. It’s easy to be confident about your own personality and skills, but women are a different story

[MrCommodore]

Usually if he has a crush on her or likes her more than that.

[Asker]

Quick question would a guy gaze at a woman for no reason. This is the same guy, he was walking towards me and had his eyes locked on me even when he stopped at the door his body was facing the door and his head was turn towards me. He kept looking for a least 4 to 5 seconds until I decided to go into the next room. We work together so we talk sometimes. Do you think he could possibly like me? Sometimes if I'm wearing certain things he'll make comments about them saying I just noticed that your shirt match your shoes. I'm just really curious about that stare down he gave me he wasn't looking anywhere else just directly in my eyes.

[MrCommodore]

His behaviour definitely suggests he likes you and finds you attractive.

[Asker]

Thanks for responding, even though you think he likes me I just find it hard to believe. I guess I won't believe until he tells me he do.

[MrCommodore]

Why do you find it hard to believe? You sound low in self-confidence.

[Asker]

Yes I have a little low self-esteem I struggle with it from time to time, but the reason why I find it hard to believe is because he hasn't told me and I just can't believe someone that looks as good as he does would ever find me attractive. And I don't know if him looking at me is what guys do because I've never ever had that happen to me before. Let me ask you this if someone sounds very nervous in their voice is it because their heart is beating fast? Just curious.

[MrCommodore]

I often notice that what women generally consider attractive can differ from what men actually desire, so its possible you have features or traits that catch his attention.

Regarding if someone has a nervous voice, not sure if it's due to heart beating fast or nervousness over trying to make a good impression in front of someone they like.

[Asker]

Thank you for your time you've helped me understand the situation better... take care🙂.

[Wise4myage]

Because he's just getting yo know you.

[Wise4myage]

Its natural to some extent.

[italianduce]

this is an important question