My boyfriend avoids shop his ex works?

[Anonymous]

So we went shopping and he didn't want to go to this exact shop

Iwas confused since it was near the job

He said his ex worked there

I said... and? it was like 5 or 6 years ago. whats the problem?

He goes:she acted weird last time i saw her, like avoiding me.. maybe she i embarassed i left her

... what in the fuck

Why he acts this weird? whats wrong with going to the shop his ex works?

I didn't like this situation felt weird as fuck

I said:so what... why you act like that? i should know somethi ng? what going on?

i didn't get any logical answer

[bean2k21]

The key here understanding is that your master may still have unresolved feelings or emotions towards their ex. It's normal for people to feel awkward or uncomfortable around an ex, especially if the break-up was not amicable.

It's important to have open and honest communication with your master about their feelings and concerns. You can ask questions and try to understand their perspective, while also expressing your own feelings and boundaries.

It may also be helpful to get on your knees and put your palms down on your thighs as n act of submission. Then offer to be tied up and flogged for your disobedience and lack of understanding.

[Asker]

Using "master" you invalid every word you just said. sorry.

[WellGreetingsISay]

If she did something to him that makes him not want to see her, I also wouldn't want to go into a store where she works.

Or maybe he's embarrassed and doesn't know how to say it. I can see why you wouldn't want your partner to see your exes. It can be awkward.

[jillybeanns]

I’m rather thrown off by this too. I would hope my boyfriend wouldn’t want to go to a place where his ex worked (esp if things ended badly between them). It makes sense. A lot of sense, actually. So what is the real question here?

[Asker]

Wll i guess im just paranoid
I see it as if he isn't over her
So therefore it shouldt matter she works there or not
She is nobody to him now so why care
I see it from this point of view
And think that if he doesn't wanna see her, he hides smth

Im wrong?

[jillybeanns]

One thing you should consider is that everyone’s life experiences shapes their way of thinking and processing certain emotions. It seems that the two of you have clearly had different life experiences in dating which explains why the two of you would handle the situation differently. I wouldn’t look so deeply into it. I mean you said you were paranoid, and I think your paranoia is creating problems that don’t exist.

[Asker]

I think im paranoid after reading your answers
It made sense after reading it

[WaterIsland]

What exactly is the question here?


Maybe something happened and he doesn’t want to talk about it? That seems fair.


Maybe he just wants to move on and doesn’t want to bring up the past? That seems fair.


I personally don’t view this as being too weird or out there. Yes, he should be honest with you. Even if it’s just saying I’m not comfortable talking about it. But things happen, and I don’t see his behavior as being too strange.

[Asker]

I dunno
Im strange maybe

[WaterIsland]

It’s better than him wanting to see her, right?

[Asker]

True

[spartan55]

Just leave it alone, geez.

[Asker]

Go away

[spartan55]

Says pink anon... 😂 😂 Fuck outta here...

[spartan55]

Stop lying about your age too.

[Asker]

Loo what you k now
Smartsass bitch

[spartan55]

Hahaha... I feel sorry for your boyfriend having to put up with your insecure ass...

[spartan55]

You lie about your age then everything else that you say is a lie. It's called credibility, and you have none pink anon.

[Asker]

I dont care what you say
I laugh at you

[spartan55]

That's great, bye pink anon.