He really doesn’t like me does he when he said this?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been talking to this guy I liked when we met during university and we are just friends as he doesn’t feel the same…well he didn’t years ago. We are talking again after a few years and he’s always nice and responds quickly to messages etc but doesn’t initiate.
I said to him to give me a call when he’s ready and he says ‘Not now but ill let you know sometime in the future’……he really doesn’t like me at all does he, he doesn’t even want to talk to me :(

[Guy13]

Boy, this guy is a real winner. He seems to be communicating in a casual way that he is not very very interested. I think he has a girlfriend or a Number 1 and Number 2 in progress. I would not have my heart set on him... that's for sure.

Once you start dating and he sees you around with other men then he will know you have Value. Right about then, he will start being flirty out of jealousy. If I were you, I would ignore his advances in a nice way.

"Not now but I'll let you know in the future" would be PERFECT !!!

[Wise4myage]

He's a moron if he expects you to wait around for him, so date other guys. Busy or not, he can make time for you.

[Asker]

Exactly! I sure as hell won’t be waiting, thankyou

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome.

[Agirlinneedhelp]

He obviously have other priorities that's all. If you want to date you right now he would have asked you out right then.

[Asker]

Yep, we live in different states anyway. Is he busy maybe?