He said I don’t have to worry about other girls and that just because he messes with them doesn’t mean I’m on the backburner. He also asked me if I think him being intimate with someone else would mean he would forget me. Lowkey I do feel that way. But what is he trying to let me know but saying what he did. This is from the same guy who claims to not have any feelings either.
What does this mean why did he tell me that?
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If I were in your position. I’d interpret this as a MAJOR red flag. Unless you want an open relationship. Which if you do, then I’d sit down and make that clear with him.
But any mature decent guy who truly has feelings for you will put you first. And not even think about any of the immature stuff he’s talking about.
It’s not so much an open relationship because we aren’t together
But it’s just him saying that and it’s been a casual friends with benefits thing was pretty big to me
He’s never talked like that before
Oh well then it’s a non issue. He can do whatever he wants and so can you. Not a big deal at all then.
You’re missing the point of why I was asking this question.
Yes him and I can do what we want. But I was wondering mainly why he would tell me I’m still at the forefront even he’s messing with other girls.
It’s kind of like what @icedragoom was saying
He’s telling me other girls aren’t going to cause him to forget me or put me to the side and this is the same one who said he didn’t have feelings. I don’t think I’d say that to someone I didn’t like in someway or didn’t have feelings for.
So this can be interpreted in two ways first is simple he wants an open relationship/ the other is and I feel like its this one his eyes may wander but his heart will still come home he may talk to other girls he may look at other girls but no matter what that is not you and even if a girl is pretty he may look but he wants to be with you
This applies even if he’s said before he doesn’t have any feelings or desire for me
We’ve pretty much been doing the friends with benefits thing for awhile now like 2 years. I don’t even thinks it’s an open relationship because we aren’t exclusive.
I should’ve asked him what he meant when he said it and I didn’t.
*I meant to say does this apply still even if…
That's tough cause you see if you guys aren't together and he is saying that to you it sounds like he wants to be a bit more while keeping things the way they are
Hmmm interesting you say that…how can he want more but it still stay the same 🤔?
It's possible he is not good with putting his feelings into words hence the mix signals
He’s not but I was curious if what he said was something good or not because he’s said we won’t be together or so he says
So would you tell a girl something like what he said if you didn’t have feelings for her?
No I wouldn't
That’s what I thought. I don't know what to think. And he keeps me lowkey too from his circle which we aren’t together so that’s fine but I wonder is that because I’m the one he doesn’t want to lose possibly?