I was friends with this guy for only a few months until recently he stopped communicating with me. I’ve been trying to get into contact with him for the longest but learned he blocked me, unfriended me on everything. It’s been almost two weeks and I just discovered he unblocked my number. I texted him was our friendship over with and he pretended like he didn’t know the number asking who’s number is this. I asked him repeatedly what did I do wrong and he was asking what did I want from him then he says something like “goodbye I know what you’re up to.” I get confused and ask him again and he gets frustrated and asked what do I want from him. I asked why did he block me. He told me he dfw me anymore and that I hurt him. So I asked him what exactly did I do and he responded with just “everything” I honestly don’t know what I did. How am I supposed to get him to tell me?
Guy friend ghosted me but won’t tell me why?
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You are not supposed to get him to tell you. That would be ridiculous.
This guy is treating you like shit. He's being SUCH an asshole to you. There is no excuse or justification for this.
It doesn't matter what you may or may not have done at this point. You clearly have no idea. So if you did do something, it was not intentional.
This guy acted like such a little bitch by blocking you in the first place. If he was upset with you about somethig. Cool. So talk about it! What's this blocking you or disappearing. That's some coward-shit.
If he doesn't feel the need to tell you he's mad about something partiular. Fine. Fuck him. Why are you going to chase after him like some pathetic puppy begging for him to just tell you why he's mad. That's pathetic, and you're better than that.
This guy is acting like a child. Don't get drawn into acting like one too by playing his bullshit game.
If he wanted to get in contact with you, he should have. Unblocking your number means nothing aside from him wanting to have a little more fun playing this game again. You were a fool to call him. He stopped talking to you. So if he changes his mind, he can call you. If he doesn't call you, then he doesn't want to talk to you. Why call him and beg? It's insane.
This guy is a piece of shit. He has treated you in a way that completely tramples on your feelings. And he knows it. He just doesn't care (or is enjoying watching you chase him and beg). This guy is not a friend. This guy should have to beg YOU for forgiveness here.
You need to take a step back here.
What are you doing?
Is this right?
Is this fair?
Isn't this... really pathetic actually?
Isn't this guy just an asshole who has disregarded your feelings for no reason?
You need to stop worrying about why he ghosted you. And just be glad that he did. This guy SUUUUUCKS, and your for sure better off without him.
Anybody who acts like this is not your friend. You don't WANT a guy like this in your life. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Let him stay ghosted. You're a fool if you keep trying.