What are his motives?

[Anonymous]

A guy always asks me to hangout if I say no he says I’m being rude etc, if I say yes he will never follow through and when it is time to hangout he will ignore me and always have an excuse later as to what happened.

Does he really just need the validation of me saying yes I will hangout with him? I don’t get it.

[Anonymous]

It is possible that this guy is seeking validation or attention from you by repeatedly asking you to hang out and getting upset when you say no. However, it is also possible that he is not genuinely interested in spending time with you and is using these interactions as a means of manipulating or controlling you.

Regardless of his motivations or intentions, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries in any interaction or relationship. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about this person's behavior, it may be helpful to communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly and assertively, and to avoid engaging in interactions or activities that make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in any relationship or interaction, and that it is possible to find meaningful connections and support with people who prioritize your well-being and values. If you feel uncertain or overwhelmed about this situation, it may be helpful to seek guidance from trusted friends, family members, or a professional counselor to help navigate these complex emotions and dynamics.

[Guy13]

Messing with your mind

[Anonymous]

Avoid him, he sounds unhinged.

[Iron_Man]

Strange guy wishy washy