Guys in your OPINION Why would a guy be so eager to have a baby with his woman when he hasn't achieved all goals as yet- 1 of which a baby would ruin?

[LovingLoverReturned]

100% the guy's initiation and even the woman reminds him or thinks it's not the best time.

[Paul09]

To me, that sounds odd for a man that young to already want kids so bad. That's insanity. He still hasn't figured out life, still probably doesn't have his dream job or what not. Does he not know how life dramatically changes when you ave kids? Does he realize how expensive it is to have kids? What's the rush?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Young? What are you talking about. The guy I'm referring to is at least 10 times my age and lives in a large family and often does uncle duties.

[Paul09]

Holy crap. Not sure what you see in him..

[LovingLoverReturned]

You're assuming I'm referring ot a guy I'm with.
Nevertheless I don't see what is wrong with being a good uncle 🤔 in your opinion

[Paul09]

Real thought it was about your situation, not someone else. Either way, it is strange not to complete your goals and want kids. Not sure why people are so eager to have them. Especially when it's very expensive

[loveslongnails]

I have zero idea why anyone wants kids, especially bringing one into this world today!

[LovingLoverReturned]

Lol I agree. Kids are not the problems but the environment is.

[LovingLoverReturned]

By environment I mean the crime and everything

[loveslongnails]

So in other words, "people" are the problem, and what they DO to create the environment.

[motownplayer2000]

Lock her down and plant his seed. So there is always a piece of what you did together. It’s really never the right time to have kids.. sooo…