It depends on why they are living at home. If the male just can't be bothered to get a job (s) and is mooching-off his parents then that is a pathetic scenario.
If he lives with them bc he has an ailment, or lost everything and is attempting to right his life, then it may be warranted in interim. As long as he doesn't milk it for all is worth.
As for the 22 year old girl, if she just got out of school and is saving up for first and last then most parents don't mind, but if she is doing nothing to get a job and is also mooching-off her parents then I would say she is just as pathetic as the 37 year old.
Both are adults, and if they are both living at home to take advantage of their parents generosity, then they are equally pathetic. Just bc the 37 year old has been doing it longer, doesn't make the 22 year old any better?
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The richest people on earth got that way by having households that had multiple generations in it, and running a family business.
Its actually pathetic if you have to go out on your own and struggle in life, because it means you either care more about what society thinks of you, than your own well being and goals, or it means your parents suck, and had a kid/kids they were not prepared for. Both of which are pathetic.
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Depends on the situation. If either of them are paying their fair share of the household and aren't mooching, then no. Sometimes it's hard on people, especially with medical situations and you have to also consider if the parents aren't doing so well. Is it pathetic if the thirty seven year old man lives with his parents because his parents are infirm in some fashion and they can't afford to send them to assisted living or a nursing home?
No, it's not. That would imply a huge difference between the genders in these matters which I don't think is fair to say.
Depending on the situation it's not necessarily pathetic even for the 37-year-old, but usually it is.
Nah. It's pretty normal for young adults to live at home to get their feet under them.
No. It's more pathetic for the second person that you mentioned.
No, I thinks its pathetic for the older guy.
No, it isn't.
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