I just became this guy's girlfriend last week and after he had sex with me he only texts me once a day. What does this mean, is he not interested?

[Anonymous]

Did he just agree to be my boyfriend for sex? I think when men are interested they'll want to call you everyday or at least text you through out the day, not just once. Help me please. What does this mean and what do I do?

[Anonymous]

It's important for you to remember that everyone communicates and expresses their feelings differently, and there may be a variety of reasons why your new boyfriend is only texting you once a day. It's possible that he is busy with work or other commitments, or that he simply prefers to communicate less frequently.

However, if you're feeling uncertain or concerned about his level of interest, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with him. Let him know how you're feeling and what you need from the relationship in terms of communication and emotional support.

It's also important to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being and happiness. If you feel that your boyfriend is not meeting your needs or is not treating you with respect, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider whether it's a healthy and fulfilling match.

Remember that a healthy relationship is built on communication, trust, and mutual respect. Don't be afraid to advocate for yourself and to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

[Hulk_kitty]

I personally hating texting, it does my nut in. I tell my friends I only like calling. If your were my girlfriend, texting once a day is all you would get from me.

You can't just base a decison if he is interested by the amount of texts you are recieving off a guy. Does he call youask you to meet with up at all, or does just speak and text for sex?

But also men are getting to stage with girls, they getting sick and tired of alway intiating of asking the girl if she want to do something. I believe that only be for the first dates, after that both parties should show intiative in showing interest.

What you should do, just ask him straight, is interested in you, and both of make any effort.

Stop this guessing games with each other, and be straight with each other, it will save so much time for both of you.

[Hulk_kitty]

I was in your position and the girl was doing this to me, I would pick up the phone, and just ask her straight out, whats going on, and she interested or not. I would say her, I would respect her if she just tells me the truth, instead of playing the guessing game.

Dating would be so much if people were just straight with each other. I have told girls I am not interested instead of leaving the guessing.

[Hulk_kitty]

sorry young lady, one thing I have learnt and has made my life easier with people, is you must have umcomfortable conservations with people, if you want to develop better relationships with people, over thinking peoples actions and intentions is not going to help you, its only going make things worst for you.
With every relationship I have someone, I will call them out on their actions, or I will ask them what theirs problem, and go from there.

[Hulk_kitty]

If people can't tell you the truth, and you feel they are messing you around, then its time to move on, but you can only tell this by speaking to the person. Having conversations with people, will enable you to tell, if their words match their actions.

[MementoMori777]

Seems like a quick change after sex, doesn't sound like his intentions were pure judging by the change in behavior after sex, ask him why he is acting different

[spartan55]

Text you throughout the day? Hahaha... said no guy ever.

[Wise4myage]

How long have you known him before you became a couple?

[Asker]

1 month

[Wise4myage]

Don't you think that's too early to be having sex?