Like, our interests don't match much. He always tries to end the conversation when I say something he doesn't agree with. He always texts me first but still doesn't seem to care much. He mentions his ex a lot to. Should I continue chatting with him?
So, this guy has been texting me almost every day but he doesn't respond quickly to my texts. Is he into me?
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First off, texting or how quickly he replies, isn't a good way to gauge how interested someone is in you. What if he's busy with work, school, or real life and can't message you at the drop of a hat?
Heck I work at a hospital and I've told friends and family that I can't always reply right away due to: bad reception and I'm busy... but I'll reply when I'm able.
"Like, our interests don't match much... He always tries to end the conversation when I say something he doesn't agree with." So he brings up his ex, and he's quick to dismiss things he doesn't agree with you on?
... sounds like he's not that into you. He's attracted to you, and probably likes that he's getting attention from a female. But it doesn't sound like he wants to date you right now, especially if he's still bringing up his ex (that's a glaring red flag!)
If you want to continue talking to him on a casual level? Go for it! But I wouldn't invest too much time or energy into him until he shows he's really interested in you.
You can but if you want to keep him as a friend, you already saying your interests don't match so that means you guys might not have too much in common
call him and talk to him