Why he has stopped staring at me?

[Anonymous]

My classmate often looked at me last year. He talked to me one time and I replied him nicely. After 2 months, he stopped looking at me and then there was summer break in our college. And after summer break, he continued staring at me on and off. One day I was alone walking in the corridor and he was with his friends. I reached the end of corridor and I was walking and I saw he came from his place and out of nowhere he locked eyes with me for 2 mins and then went away to his friends. And while going back to his friends, he smiled. He did this staring thing for 1 year. And this year, he has been doing it but has stopped now. Also, he used to sit beside me everytime in college but now he doesn't. What does that mean? It's the same month that last year he ignored me but this time, he is not coming back to looking at me. Also, he didn't try to add me on any of his social media so I thought I'm not worthy but everytime he made eye contact, I responded. This is the max I could do for him. Please don't say me to ask him because if I could, I wouldn't be wasting my time asking here. Just let me know what he thinks according to psychology.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain why your classmate has stopped staring at you, as there could be a variety of reasons. While it's possible that he may have lost interest in you, it's also possible that he may be dealing with personal issues or other distractions that are taking up his attention.

From a psychological standpoint, it's important to remember that we cannot read other people's thoughts or intentions with certainty, and that there are many factors that can influence someone's behavior. It's also important to consider your own feelings and boundaries in this situation, and to prioritize your own well-being and comfort.

If you're feeling uncertain or uncomfortable about the situation, it may be helpful to focus on building connections with other classmates or pursuing your own interests and hobbies. It's also possible that your classmate may resume his previous behavior or make contact with you in the future, but it's important to remember that you cannot control his actions or predict his intentions.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide how you want to approach this situation and whether you feel comfortable and safe in your interactions with your classmate. If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure, it may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or family members, or to consult a therapist or counselor to help you navigate this situation.

[OfMiceandMen]

I am getting the..."he already found someone vibe". Guys who don't make eye contact with girls anymore that did before, suggests to me, he's in a relationship now and is trying to respect the person he is with. You may not see the other person ever, as it could be long distance relationship?

[Asker]

I don't exactly but might be possible. One thing I'm sure is that if he has found someone, it's surely not from our college because I don't notice him simping for someone.

[OfMiceandMen]

Possibly someone he left behind at home or is going to another college and they are trying to stay together.