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How do you know if a man is genuinely interested in you and not just because he wants to sleep with you? (Page 2)
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Good question. In another thread women determined that a guy is not interested at all if he doesn't try to have sex by the fourth date.
So if he waits until the third date?
I don't know maybe ask him if he like to hang out with you.
He asks you questions about yourself. Wants to get to know you and actually listens to you. If he’s interested in learning about you and your interests I think that says a lot about what he wants.
Consistency over time. The mixed signal you mention sounds like inconsistency.
Ask how important is sex for him. If it's something like 7/10 important then that means there is room for other things.
If he only wants you for sex, he wouldn't introduce you to his friends. Je wouldn't want to be seen holding hands in public.
He asks u personal questions. Like what’s your body count? How’s your relationship with your family? Do you want kids? Are you sleeping with others? Etc.
Tbh the only way you will know is to sleep w/ him.
Dating. Get to know each other and see how much you can trust him.
Don’t sleep with him and if he hangs around then you’ll know
Ask yourself what do you offer him? If sex is really all you offer sex is all he’ll want
The more time he spends with you not having sex.
That’s the only real way to measure anyone’s affections toward you. How much do they want or do spend with you.
Time + Loyalty + Faithfulness.
Don't trust anything is quick, fast and short duration.
Ask him to borrow a big money, if he made excuses, then he is not serious, he is only for your body
Just tell him you already in relationship with someone. If his moto only to sleep with you, then after hearing this, he won't spend time with you
Same way a guy knows a woman is interested in him and not just his money.
He will give you hints and clues if he's really in loveeee
He cares as much about your interests in life, then he does every other aspect.
Tell him no sex until you’re married.
Hmmm. NOT sure that's the BEST test!
Maybe tell him to wait a couple of months when you really mean “until I get horny and feel safe enough.” And if he acts like a dick or pulls back, you got your answer…?
Mixed signal like what?
He keep telling i miss you, when he was away, can’t wait to see you. At the same time he always said he’s not ready for relationship, but when we are together his action said otherwise.
If he says he doesn't want a relationship that is the only signal you need. Right?
He misses the sex. But he is not going to marry you.
He is very very very clear with what he wants.
Do you know what you want? If not…well…
What will you do next?
Thank you @midnightmoon05
You never can tell. Sorry
Do you have anything in common?
Trust your gut. Always
If he stays around long enought
Define long enough. Weeks , months, years
I dont think men know that themselves
if he keeps coming back on taking you out!
Just don't sleep with him and you'll find out
Dont sleep with him any time soon.
Its hard to explain detail by detail. Its in the little things. Just observe. If it doesn't feel right, if you are confused, if you dont know how he feels, i’d take that as a sign that he isn't truly interested in anything more.
The other thing to do is the former, which is avoiding physical intimacy and see how he acts.
Okay one example (maybe two) before my boyfriend and i got into a relationship. We were having sex but not official. He would take me out on dates, before/after having sex, he would bring me coffee in the morning after we spend the night together, and as sexist as this sounds, he spoils me (buys me food, gifts), but the catch is, its not expensive gifts or fancy food, its my favorite food/drink that dont cost a lot because he learned what i like, and the gifts are cheap but meaningful (bracelet of my favorite color). He texted me a lot and this one, i think is important, he asked me a lot about myself because he’s interested in knowing me. I noticed that guys that aren't too into me, only talk about themselves.
I might be getting too much into it, my point is, look at the little things!!
Hope this helps somehow. Before i met my boyfriend, who I believe truly cares for me, i had a lot of questions too, but when its there, it becomes pretty clear.
That doesn’t exist
My friend told me that all men are thief.
Don't give him sex.
He would draw you
Just ask him.
Do you got a man?
No idea
Just ask him.
All men want the pus