I have no idea why my crush was so angry?

[Anonymous]

So one day, a guy L (we used to talk a lot during class, the teacher always asked us to stop talking in the class) asked me if the homework was to be submitted to me, I said no, submit it to D (the teacher’s assistant), and my crush F immediately woke up from his sleep when he heard my voice then walked up to me and started scolding at me “Why did you mention other’s name?” I replied “I just said submit the homework to the another person”, he kept scolding at me “why did you mention other’s name? Blah blah blah… (accusing me).. Go do some self reflection”. He was angry. But I don’t know what I did wrong. The reason he was angry is just lame, I just said the homework was to be submitted to another person. That makes me feel so upset

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Now I’m just mad thinking about it..

[SueShe]

That is plain simply jealousy on his part. He saw you talking with another boy and he could not take it. He scolded you for talking to a male regardless of what you had to say. Even when you explained what the entire conversation was all about, he did not want to listen and got angry at you for talking.

This is a typical sign of lack of maturity on his part. If you are under 18 and he is the same age as you, you can remove 2 years of his age and you get his maturity. If he is 16, then he has the maturity of a 14 year old teenager. That would explain why he is unable to control himself. That is a toxic behavior on his part and he should apologize.

Given his lack of maturity, he will not apologize because he sees no problem.

[Asker]

But if he was jealous, why didn’t he scold at the another guy but scolded at me? 🫤 He then befriended with the other guy…

[SueShe]

Could be because

1. He was afraid of the reaction of the other guy or
2. By befriending him, he can keep him under control.

[SaRang21]

He’s weird..

[In_Trance]

You'd have to ask him. Only he knows

[Asker]

How to ask him.. “why were you mad yesterday”? No,, he scolded at me, why should I approach him :-/

[In_Trance]

If you want to continue any type of... whatever it is you think you have with him, you have to approach. He won't approach you.

[Anonymous]

Don't think too much girl

[Asker]

How not to think too much? I like him. And now I’m sad and mad

[Opinion Owner]

Because he really have feelings for you. he will apologize for his mistakes

[Asker]

He didn’t apologise.. but then days later he kind of flirted with me again..

[Opinion Owner]

Red flag... not recognising his mistake

[Asker]

Ahh I’m just wondering why he did that. I wonder if I did anything wrong

[Iron_Man]

Your to young yet for dating