The last time I cried was about six years ago. I was serving a middle aged Latina woman as a maid, personal/oral servant, etc. She harbored a lot of anger and bitterness towards men in general, and when I started serving her, we agreed that she would have the opportunity to spank/whip/beat me as part of the arrangement. I didn't realize how physically strong she was, but by the time I became aware of her sheer strength, it was too late to avoid what she was determined to do.
Some say laughter is the best medicine & from time to time I OD on it & when I do the waterworks start when I bust out laughing. On the hand when the jokers at work took away the ice cream machine there were some tears that day. If any other shit happens I man up & hold my tears in.
I almost never cry, although I wouldn’t say I hide my emotions. The last times I cried had to do with a friend who was beaten by her boyfriend but went back to him and a friend who died of a heart attack.
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Rarely or at least for legitimate reasons. Purely coincidentally, I got teary-eyed listening to a love song about intra-relational struggle on my way home from work today (Marshmello & Halsey - Be Kind). I'll also get teary-eyed when watching romance movies or series, or when a really sad part of a movie plays.
If I'm not around a romantic partner I'll stop myself from getting that way, but if it's my girl and we've been together for a while, I don't mind letting the water works flow.
We are empty vassals void of much emotion most of the time. Ladies are almost always emotional over things we aren’t. When our tire 🛞 blows we don’t get upset, we just start thinking about how to fix it.
Not saying that we won’t start to get grumpy later on after we find out our spare is flat and our cell phone is dead and we’ve walked 10 of the 15 miles back to get what we need and we’ve developed a blister… 😠 😂
We are just mostly much slower to emotional chaos than most women are.
Eh I'm a military wife so if something like my tire blows/goes out I'm also just trying to fix it and move on without getting upset. Getting emotional over that type of stuff would be a waste especially when there is no one to cry to about it
I mean my dad started beating me up when i was only 2 years old and my mom had always been stressed when she was still carrying me in her womb because of my dad and other people living with him. I was only months when i started remembering things. That's when my dad just yells and keeps firing a gun while I'm a sleep which startles new born me. We just wait my first memories when i first open my eyes, i was already scared of my dad and my brother just looks like him and sometimes sound like him when he's mad.
Thanks! *Hugs* I forgot to say, although im close friends with my brother now, i had a history of him being somewhat of a jerk to me.
Both my parents left me when i was only 4 - 5 out of desperation for money and i was raised by my grand parents who's overly protective. I was glad and relieved that my dad left but i did miss my mom. We just talk with my parents through phone once in a blue moon and i didn't even want to talk to my dad only my mom. She didn't take me with her because of my dad but then i was 19 when i met them again. I was actually relieved when why dad left but i did miss my mom. When we met again, my dad started to change but he is still learning and still have anger issues. Although he's being supportive now, i feel of some sort of a trust issue but slowly starting to feel more comfortable but then my trust broke again two years ago after he manipulated me one time with money.
I thought it would help me get close to him and because of that i had forgot about my mom then after that event my mom called talking how much she disagreed with his plan but there's just nothing she can do and i was thinking that maybe he's trying to get benefits from me by investing that much because he is worried that i might favor my mom and leave him behind which is why i stop accepting offers from him and try to ask help my from my mom and secret because my dad keeps monitoring my mom. We are going to meet again and talked to him on the phone just months ago and i cried when i held him accountability for what he has done to me. He keeps blaming me when it's also his fault which i just realized because i was thinking of having children and i wouldn't do that to them and it would be my fault if they're having a hard time then thought to myself it's better to have no children than to have them and troubled. I'm the one who had been affected the most because my brother had been living in my grandma's house well i had been living with them. My brother still had time to get to know and understand my dad better while my younger sister hasn't really seen much of my dad. I was abused and left too early. While my sister was left to early, she wasn't abused early so she has very little memory before they left which is why.
My grandparents regret rasing "monsters" which is why they are becoming so overprotective to us when they had to raise us not letting us do anything but i just had to rebel and come of as a "bad child" that's why i lack moral support in growing up i'm a only started becoming wise after i graduated college (at 18-19) when i finally started becoming alone. I matured too late but hit me like a truck and i keep having thoughts "why haven't i learned earlier?" Which sometimes make me cry having those thoughts.
I actually don't think I even know how to, anymore. I don't even say that as a joke; it's honestly kind of concerning, like maybe I have something wrong with me. 🤷♂️
The last time I cried was 2017... Wow! I was meditating to some chill-out music and imagining what it will be like losing my mother. It is inevitable for each of us who still has a loving mother in their life. She's still around, by the way. I guess I've toughened up or emotionally plateaued out on most accounts in my life. Being a veteran and still a soldier, middle-aged, low-key, live alone... a little boring, but stable; how I like it.
Lot of struggles and regrets and it comes out in tears sometimes but I think I manage to keep it all in pretty well.
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Men don't try to hide their emotions like you women want to believe. The last time I cried was when my grandmother died 4 years ago. I have felt zero urge to cry since then. I literally couldn't cry if I tried.
I have to admit that I do get chocked up when the guy finally realizes that the girl he has been avoiding turns out to be the right girl after all. I guess I am just an old softy at heart. But don’t tell anyone…. lol
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The last time I cried was about six years ago. I was serving a middle aged Latina woman as a maid, personal/oral servant, etc. She harbored a lot of anger and bitterness towards men in general, and when I started serving her, we agreed that she would have the opportunity to spank/whip/beat me as part of the arrangement. I didn't realize how physically strong she was, but by the time I became aware of her sheer strength, it was too late to avoid what she was determined to do.
Some say laughter is the best medicine & from time to time I OD on it & when I do the waterworks start when I bust out laughing. On the hand when the jokers at work took away the ice cream machine there were some tears that day. If any other shit happens I man up & hold my tears in.
Lately, I cry quite often.
With constant physical pain levels for the last 20 months of 8.5 to 9.5, when the pain hits 9.6, I'm in tears.
Emotional pain, but much more frequently, emotional joy will also have my tear ducts over-welling.
There's nothing like a good cry to relax a person.
This person, anyway
Rarely, if ever. I’ll get angry more often than I feel like crying anyway. I just don’t understand what good crying does.
Yeah men get emotional through anger more then sadness
Oh man. Now I sound like a monster 🤣
(Those were tears from laughing, not crying)
Oh yeah sure from laughing 😂
I almost never cry, although I wouldn’t say I hide my emotions. The last times I cried had to do with a friend who was beaten by her boyfriend but went back to him and a friend who died of a heart attack.
Rarely or at least for legitimate reasons. Purely coincidentally, I got teary-eyed listening to a love song about intra-relational struggle on my way home from work today (Marshmello & Halsey - Be Kind). I'll also get teary-eyed when watching romance movies or series, or when a really sad part of a movie plays.
If I'm not around a romantic partner I'll stop myself from getting that way, but if it's my girl and we've been together for a while, I don't mind letting the water works flow.
Now days I almost cry every night, because I feel like no woman really likes me.
Oh no sorry to hear that 😔
We have far less emotion than women. We cry when we reach limits that would allow us to fight ti the death
Don't think so. Men forget the anger is a emotion too 😂
@Apple1996 Women have way less control of their anger than men
@king34 you sure about that? Think about how little female killers there are compared to males...
I see your point bet There's more factors in a murder case than anger.
We are empty vassals void of much emotion most of the time. Ladies are almost always emotional over things we aren’t. When our tire 🛞 blows we don’t get upset, we just start thinking about how to fix it.
Not saying that we won’t start to get grumpy later on after we find out our spare is flat and our cell phone is dead and we’ve walked 10 of the 15 miles back to get what we need and we’ve developed a blister… 😠 😂
We are just mostly much slower to emotional chaos than most women are.
Men are far more apt to feel anger than tears and sadness… but an angry crying man is a scary sight for sure
Eh I'm a military wife so if something like my tire blows/goes out I'm also just trying to fix it and move on without getting upset. Getting emotional over that type of stuff would be a waste especially when there is no one to cry to about it
Anyone angry and crying is scary 😬
I 💯 % agree on both!
Military wives have to do a lot alone and must be strong
Depends. It happens usually when it comes to my dad and older brother because of some trauma but other than that, nothing really affects me that much
I mean my dad started beating me up when i was only 2 years old and my mom had always been stressed when she was still carrying me in her womb because of my dad and other people living with him. I was only months when i started remembering things. That's when my dad just yells and keeps firing a gun while I'm a sleep which startles new born me. We just wait my first memories when i first open my eyes, i was already scared of my dad and my brother just looks like him and sometimes sound like him when he's mad.
*my first memories when i first open my eyes
Omg didn't know you had so much trauma!
You are definitely a tough one for living through all that😭
Thanks! *Hugs* I forgot to say, although im close friends with my brother now, i had a history of him being somewhat of a jerk to me.
Both my parents left me when i was only 4 - 5 out of desperation for money and i was raised by my grand parents who's overly protective. I was glad and relieved that my dad left but i did miss my mom. We just talk with my parents through phone once in a blue moon and i didn't even want to talk to my dad only my mom. She didn't take me with her because of my dad but then i was 19 when i met them again. I was actually relieved when why dad left but i did miss my mom. When we met again, my dad started to change but he is still learning and still have anger issues. Although he's being supportive now, i feel of some sort of a trust issue but slowly starting to feel more comfortable but then my trust broke again two years ago after he manipulated me one time with money.
I thought it would help me get close to him and because of that i had forgot about my mom then after that event my mom called talking how much she disagreed with his plan but there's just nothing she can do and i was thinking that maybe he's trying to get benefits from me by investing that much because he is worried that i might favor my mom and leave him behind which is why i stop accepting offers from him and try to ask help my from my mom and secret because my dad keeps monitoring my mom. We are going to meet again and talked to him on the phone just months ago and i cried when i held him accountability for what he has done to me. He keeps blaming me when it's also his fault which i just realized because i was thinking of having children and i wouldn't do that to them and it would be my fault if they're having a hard time then thought to myself it's better to have no children than to have them and troubled. I'm the one who had been affected the most because my brother had been living in my grandma's house well i had been living with them. My brother still had time to get to know and understand my dad better while my younger sister hasn't really seen much of my dad. I was abused and left too early. While my sister was left to early, she wasn't abused early so she has very little memory before they left which is why.
My grandparents regret rasing "monsters" which is why they are becoming so overprotective to us when they had to raise us not letting us do anything but i just had to rebel and come of as a "bad child" that's why i lack moral support in growing up i'm a only started becoming wise after i graduated college (at 18-19) when i finally started becoming alone. I matured too late but hit me like a truck and i keep having thoughts "why haven't i learned earlier?" Which sometimes make me cry having those thoughts.
*raising
The last time I cried was 20 years ago.
I actually don't think I even know how to, anymore. I don't even say that as a joke; it's honestly kind of concerning, like maybe I have something wrong with me. 🤷♂️
Not often but when my epileptologist
Experimented different pills on me I was a mess. That wasn't my normal psyche though
The last time I cried was 2017... Wow! I was meditating to some chill-out music and imagining what it will be like losing my mother. It is inevitable for each of us who still has a loving mother in their life. She's still around, by the way. I guess I've toughened up or emotionally plateaued out on most accounts in my life. Being a veteran and still a soldier, middle-aged, low-key, live alone... a little boring, but stable; how I like it.
Every Wednesday and Sunday. as those are my days off. I like to chop the onions for the pie and curry that I make on those days.
Lot of struggles and regrets and it comes out in tears sometimes but I think I manage to keep it all in pretty well.
Men don't try to hide their emotions like you women want to believe. The last time I cried was when my grandmother died 4 years ago. I have felt zero urge to cry since then. I literally couldn't cry if I tried.
Do you want us to fake it or what?
Rarely.
Very few things get the water flowing for me.
Not that often, probably I haven’t cried this year at all… is it too much?
5 months into the year already and nothing has set you off to cry? I've cried probably 100 times this year alone 😂
I cry every couple of years. I am getting soft in my old age.
I have to admit that I do get chocked up when the guy finally realizes that the girl he has been avoiding turns out to be the right girl after all. I guess I am just an old softy at heart. But don’t tell anyone…. lol
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I cry when I feel sorry for others, there is so much sadness on the Internet.