Why do I feel as if my energy and avoidance is effecting someone in the work place when there’s like 60 of us. Am I that special to him?

[Anonymous]

This Moroccan man is married with kids. Wtf do I feel like he’s sad or upset that I’m avoiding him. He doesn’t even know me

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I keep it professional and I don’t flirt with him anymore or encourage his advances … I was very light with my flirting in the beginning.. before I found out he was married. My behavior has not drastically changed

[kylee2437]

Just because you feel like he is upset, doesn’t mean he is. Seems to me that how you feel is a reflection to how you are actually acting. Why are you purposely avoiding him? Why do you assume he’s upset by this? How you think he feels is your assumption only

[Asker]

I’m avoiding him because he flirted with me.. and he’s married. And he just seems disturbed now that I’ve avoided him and I avoid him. I sle steps back when he gets too close and I leave the room and I keep eye contact at a minimum now and he seems upset about it

[kylee2437]

Maybe he’s just embarrassed? I wouldn’t take it as he’s upset. Either way, oh well

[Asker]

Embarrassed of what?

[Asker]

I don’t know. But he’s old and wide enough to know that gossip in he workplace exist, and hopefully he assumes and knows that my behavior isn’t just out of the blue. I don’t mess with married men.

[Anonymous]

I wonder if he's got a crush on you?