I unfollowed the guy that rejected me and also removed him from my followers. He was very friendly and it ended in good terms. Was it pathethic?

[Anonymous]

Do I seem like I’m hurt or something.

[Steelcore5280]

If that were me in that situation, I'd honestly laugh. Women are far worse at taking rejection than men are at taking rejection.

We take our chances sometimes at women we like, knowing the chances of rejection are at least 50% or higher. Women have bigger egos, they get offended whenever a woman rejects them.

In fact, I had a woman hit me up for a one night stand the other day, and when she thought I was rejecting her, it went about as well as I'd expect: she insulted me, belittled me, and more than likely said some nasty shit about me to her friends. Your reaction is no surprise.

I'd call it immature, personally.

[mb120101]

Hell probably assume you unadded him out of embarrassment, hopefully. Either that or hell cringe

[Asker]

He was viewing all of my updates which annoyed me.

[mb120101]

Id be curious about someone after getting hit on too. Whats done is done

[Anonymous]

Shit I would’ve just unfollowed him. Honestly I would’ve kept him as a follower just to show off all the fun things you will be doing. But hey it’s your account and you can run it however you want.

[Asker]

He was viewing all of my updates which annoyed me.

[Opinion Owner]

Why would that be annoying? When you posted did he comment?

[Asker]

No but I didn’t want him to keep up with my life

[Opinion Owner]

That’s the best revenge! You said no or didn’t want me I’ll show you!

[spartan55]

@asker
Then you should have blocked him.

[jennifer_bloom]

You have a right to cope with rejection any way you want as long as it does not infringe on the rights or freedoms of others.

[Asker]

I didn’t want to look like I’m hurt or something though

[jennifer_bloom]

If he is a good guy, he won't judge you for being hurt.

[FilmGuy93]

That definitely makes it seem like you're hurt.

[Asker]

How?

[FilmGuy93]

You're cutting contact with him after something negative happened...

[Asker]

Why not. It’s not like we were friends before this

[Asker]

Why should I allow him to keep up with my life

[FilmGuy93]

You asked a question; I answered your question.

[Anonymous]

No no, i feel more like, as if you really take care of your own social media account. Because i do that too, to friends that i don’t think that i’m close with them anymore. Your account, your rules

[Asker]

He was viewing all of my updates which annoyed me. If he want to reach out he can still message me or call me

[poetic_pisces]

you did what you think was best for you

stop over thinking

[shades777]

yea your pathetic now go cry in a corner. life will go on

[Asker]

Why are you so negative?

[shades777]

what do you want me to say to that? you turned done a friendly dude, its the least I can do

[Asker]

He rejected me because of ” different life goals”

[shades777]

Welcome to a mans world.

[shades777]

Sounds like a easy let down if you ask me, what is this pof or some streaming service

[Asker]

Do you think it just was an excuse?

[shades777]

definitely a possibility

[Asker]

What dp you think though?

[shades777]

I think I'vd never reject a girl based on different life goals, its been on things that actually matter like, does she have kids, does she smoke cigarettes, stuff like that

[Asker]

I told him I want to move abroad after like 10 years… (I was hoping we could move together abroad one day)
I also told him I want to maybe study more in our local university and get better job. He on the other hand seemed like he wants children soon and big family. I did told him I want big family too.

[shades777]

not seeing the rejection part...

[boggboss]

Yes it wouod seem like u are hurt

[boggboss]

Would*

[Asker]

I did it after week

[boggboss]

That wouldn't make a difference especially if things where still friendly

[Asker]

Wouldn’t be more pathethic to let him view my posts etc

[boggboss]

How when to him friendship is all it ever was

[Asker]

I don’t want to be his friend

[boggboss]

Which is fair enough but unless that's what u told him it will just look like u was hurt

[Asker]

He didn’t ask to be friend. He just rejected me

[boggboss]

But still acted friendly no?

[Asker]

I mean when he rejected me he sent long paragraph and was almost sweet lol

[boggboss]

OK so...

[Asker]

I don't know was that considered friendly?

[boggboss]

Just that depends on opinion either way what's done is done reasons why don't really matter now no?

[Anonymous]

No, he's better off without you

[Asker]

How he’s better off me?

[Opinion Owner]

You sound annoying and bad company

[itsalyssaagain]

No you’re protecting your boundaries.

[Jazzy54]

You did the right thing. 😊

[Anonymous]

It is only social media. Meaningless.

[In_Trance]

just move on