What do men consider?

[Redkitty_21]

What do men consider easy?
Why do men consider difficult?
What do men consider high value in women and in men?
What do men mean when they say “I don’t like easy” but go for easy anyways

[Lionman95]

I would consider a woman easy if she shows off her body without me having to do anything. Like when we´re getting in contact to get to know each other and she sends me pics where she shows off her body nude.
I would consider difficult a woman I have problems understanding either in terms of dating or in terms of us having a difficult time in communication in general.
High value is a person to me when they have a potential to inspire or when they have a passion for something. To me a high value person is general someone that differs to the rest in someway and stands out in a positive way.
I think the reason why guys say they don´t like easy but go for it anyways is because guys follow their eyes. The issue is that the signs and body language of an easy woman are easier to understand for a guy than a woman that thinks higher of herself. The issue is that many guys don´t understand a woman´s body language. So I´d say that some guys go for the easy way because they have problems figuring out how to find a partner for life.

[richardcory]

"Easy" and "difficult" can be used in lots of different ways. In a sexual context I don't want to be in a situation where a woman is thinking of "giving me" sex - its not interesting unless its something she actively wants for herself.

Some people can be "difficult" (same for me as high maintenance) in other ways - if they give the impression that they couldn't manage life on their own and need help. That is a big negative for me - I want to be wanted, not needed.

For me, no such thing as "high value'. There are women who are well matched to my interests - and those will be very different from other people's interests. I like nerds. What on earth would I do with an actress or supermodel. They might be pretty to look at, but maybe nothing more (unless she was interesting in ways other than beauty)

[Redkitty_21]

In your opinion high value would be more physical?

[richardcory]

I don't see it at all in terms of "high value" except for each individual. For ME a high value woman would be a nerd (eg interested in science / engineering / scifi / fantasy ) with a strong technical / scientific background (so we have things to talk about) who enjoys hiking in the mountains, traveling to exotic places and thinks jumping out of airplanes sounds like a fun thing to do at least once. She'd be fit enough to enjoy the things I enjoy, but not to focused on athletics so we are compatible. She'd have compatible sexual interests. Even if she were of average appearance, I'd think she was hot as hell when she smiled.

But that is me. Other men want completely different things -different from me and different from each other. They may imagine lying on the beach next to a stunning woman in a bikini. Or going out partying. Or driving a motor home around the country, or playing the high limits tables in Vegas, or sailing a boat around the world.

Its all good. Billions of people with billions of different interests. Someone for everyone. No one is going to find exactly what they most want, but most people can find someone close if they are honest with themselves about what they want

[ohsheeT]

Each man has his own idea of these things personally I do not see anybody being easy I see people being open but never easy when you meet somebody and you're talking to them and you start talking about sex there still has to be a mutual agreement and there are reasons different reasons for that mutual agreements some people are just lonely some people crave the intensity of passion the desire Within to feel that and becoming one is one of the most important things about it there are instant connections and people know when that happens so for me I don't really consider anything easy like I said you have to know that person