Guys, how do you come to terms?

[Anonymous]

With the fact your girl is not the hottest girl around? Are you always tempted to look just around the corner? What is keeping you in the house?

[zeitgeist057]

I'm polyamorous, and I'm not with my partner because she's the hottest girl around, just like she's not with me because I'm the hottest guy around. We are together because we have chemistry and love each other. Comparing to others is futile.

So yeah, we might find some other hot people that we want to hook up with. Maybe we do a threesome? But what keeps us together isn't about that, it's about the fact that we have total freedom but we love and support each other. There is no reason to leave a relationship like that, our needs are met and our autonomy is respected.

[NamerOfStars]

Logic. I mean, goodness knows I'm not the hottest guy in the world. Looks will catch a man's eye, absolutely, but by themselves, they won't hold it for long.

[1step]

The physical appearance comes first it's what makes a guy attracted to a girl in the first place but after that it's all about personality just like you won't go for just a good looking guy that is shit

[Anonymous]

Looks are important, but they are not the most important thing. Things like compatability and personality are significantly more important to at least me.

[dudeinohio]

A compatible personality and compatibility in other areas too. Then with my strong sense of loyalty. An unbeatable combination.

[najekim]

Everyone window shops. Yes, that includes women too. The chemistry between the two is the cement regardless of what you look like.

[clampfan101]

I’m not looking for the hottest girl around. I’m looking for my future partner in life.