My boyfriend harrassed me before dating me?

[Anonymous]

We actually met at work before we strted dating

He was very annoying i felt harrassed

I asked him now after 2 years

Why he did that

He said :i thought i have no chance... i had nthibg to lose i went al in maybe t far

Men... is this even normal excuse? its true?

[Anonymous]

Harassed? What exactly did he do.
My current boyfriend catcalled me a few times and gave me some dirty talk in my dms. It was only when he sent me an unsolicited dick pic that I decided to give him a shot.

[Asker]

Same but without dick pic

[TenderFantasy]

Hmm... If you didn't welcome his advances, then why did you end up together? That's weird.

[Asker]

He changed
I always liked him but not his douchebag personality

[TenderFantasy]

So you were just with him for shallow reasons? Ok. Makes sense. A lot of people are like that unfortunately. They don't consider the whole package before diving in, and they let their downstairs do the talking and decision making.

[Asker]

I did consider
And accepted whola thing

[FunkyMonkee]

Sort of. It's a way to get your attention until something better (like a date) comes along.

[Asker]

Well he did it for 2 years
He changed and i liked him

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a weak excuse. You deserve better.

[spartan55]

All in what? To be a grade A douchebag? Stupid.

[Asker]

He is not a douche now

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'm sure.

[Asker]

Why you dont believe me

[strateguy632]

not true he was just a jerk.

[Asker]

He liked me that while time he said