Boyfriend ghosted me after a fight?

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We've been together for almost a year and we've been fighting a lot. The last fight was a few days ago and was my fault. I tried to fix it and he wasn't responding. I go on his social media and notice he took me off, and his profile is public so I'm seeing that he's posting all kinds of stuff about how he's single again and needs a new girlfriend. We never officially broke up. If he really wanted to break up with me, I think I at least deserved the break up speech. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I'm hurt

Answer 1

Drifter83UK

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Yes it would be nice to have closure... I've been in your situation once a looong time ago. Alas, f**k it.. Time for you to go out and have fun. For a while keep yourself busy with friends and strangers. Wear a leather jacket lol, go for a bungee jump, do some exciting things.. Talk to as many strangers as possible and be free.. It was obviously never working and don't look back for the moron who didn't have the decency to give you closure. It was meant to intentionally break you... Now that the intention of demolition is about, rebuild yourself into something greater and forget the past. Time heals everything and practice makes better.

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Answer 2

Arbus

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Sounds like a fine guy indeed.

Do yourself a favor and fine a better one. At least one more mature than 12.

Asker

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Great reply. I agree he's being somewhat immature but a lot of it was me too. I think I'm just going to take a break from relationships and heal and work on myself. Thanks though

Answer 3

Asker

Great reply. I agree he's being somewhat immature but a lot of it was me too. I think I'm just going to take a break from relationships and heal and work on myself. Thanks though

Answer 4

IgottaQuestion2

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I mean no one really deserves anything. My guess is this is not the first time it has happened, and he is finally tired of you, and doesn't want to give you the chance to make him feel sorry for you or weasel your way back in. You said it yourself, you fucked up. He moved on, I suggest you do the same.

Answer 5

Anonymous

Look, sweet heart, you're in your 30s, you're probably childless, and you only have a few more years left of your fertility window. Are you going to spend it wasting time looking at your ex boyfriends profile and dwelling over it or you're going to get up off your ass and find another guy?

DonRomeo

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Christ, you take forcing another kid into this sick world pretty lightly dont you?
Asker

+1 y
I was told when I was 25 that I can't have kids due to a medical condition but yeah, thanks for that reminder.

I understand that u didn't know but that's kind of a sensitive issue for me.
Opinion Owner

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@Asker well then i am sorry.

Answer 6

DonRomeo

Christ, you take forcing another kid into this sick world pretty lightly dont you?

Answer 7

Asker

I was told when I was 25 that I can't have kids due to a medical condition but yeah, thanks for that reminder.

I understand that u didn't know but that's kind of a sensitive issue for me.

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

@Asker well then i am sorry.

Answer 9

boggboss | 1.6K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

You are not wrong feeling u was treated bad guess he just couldn't take it anymore

boggboss

+1 y
Guess it's time to move on and start healing

Answer 10

boggboss

Guess it's time to move on and start healing

Answer 11

winterfox10 | 417 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

You deserved a formal break up, but sadly we don't always get what we deserve.

Answer 12

outside_Toronto

Master

So if he needs time to cool off before he can work on a resolution, that seems normal. If he's going to act like he's 13, let him go. You deserve better than that

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james_mark | 55 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

I think he done and maybe hurt a lot so space will heal him and make him miss you unless he was completely over younand fohnd a girlfriend

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MindTime | 157 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

I'm guessing he just wanted an excuse to break up

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yodiwont

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Was he aware of this virtual relationship

Answer 16

Anonymous

No you're not wrong. Get over it.

Boyfriend ghosted me after a fight?

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