What do you think is the reason? Do you think that this kind of help from "gurus" really helps men with interactions with women? Guys say your opinion too!
Girls, what do you think about the rise of the sigma men movement in social networks?
there are varied opinions on whether advice from "gurus" can effectively help men with their interactions with women. Some individuals may find the advice helpful and valuable, while others may find it problematic or ineffective. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide what approaches are most appropriate and ethical in their efforts to interact with others. I however find gurus problematic.
One reason why gurus who claim to help men date women can be problematic is that their advice often promotes a toxic and objectifying view of women. Some gurus use manipulative tactics and encourage men to play games and use pick-up lines to "win" women over, which can be harmful and disrespectful.
Additionally, many of these gurus lack formal training or credentials in relationship counseling or psychology. This can lead to advice that is based on personal opinions and anecdotes rather than proven methods and research.
Furthermore, some gurus may be more interested in making money off of vulnerable and insecure men who are willing to pay for their advice, rather than genuinely helping them build healthy and meaningful relationships. This can lead to unethical practices such as withholding information or encouraging harmful behaviors just to keep clients returning for more advice.
You stole my thoughts. I completly agree. In one hand this thing can make this kind of men take care of themselves with all this thing of hit the gym, sleep, wake up early, dont masturnbate, work hard and all that stuff. But when they give dating tips it's like you said, an objectifying view of women... and its very sad because this kind of guys who are very insecure will turn into toxic people...
I dont use social media so im not sure what you’re referring to. But i googled it just now and this popped up. I’m not really sure what to make of it. Feel free to break it down. On one end its supposed to be a good thing as the guy sounds like a lonewolf (which i love) and walks his own path. But on the other hand, is it saying he’s all about crypto, being a gymfreak, hornball, and rebel? Correct me if i’m wrong but thats kinda cringe. I tend to avoid anyone labeling themselves as alpha/beta/etc anyways
Well kinda, but its more than that, I think that all that stuff of beta, alfa, sigma is bad for people and can frustrate. In social media this type of content is increasing and in things like dating and that stuff I think they give a vision of the world kinda misogynist and give men with poor social skills a mindset that is not healthy. It may be good at things like investing and taking care of themselves, but it's the treatment of women what worries me... This alfa/sigma thing is doing a lot of damage to some people and it is turning them delusional...
I don´t think it´s bad as long as it´s balanced. Sure there is an over-statement of materialism, hard work and strength but at the same time there are good sides that are often missed out. Like a warning of the dangerous effects of social media, porn and instant gratification that can have a negative effect on your brain. The emphasis of eating healthy and finding a direction in your life as a path to go. A healthy order of first getting your life together and stable your life and later look for a partner. Using your energy to build something that´s worth in real life rather than in a video game. I think all those factors can help guys avoid making stupid decisions and date the wrong women. But nonetheless it could also get dangerous since in an extreme version you´ll never be happy. Because it can make guys self-centred and lose the connection to other people plus it could develop a thinking of black and white in them.
I really agree with you. It has a part that is beneficial for men because at the end it makes them take care of themselves and even learn important things about being a "high value man" but also there are some kind of treatmen to other people that can be selfish or even sexist... In all the dating thing of this kind of gurus is like they treat women like meat or animals and I feel that part is very negative for men because at the end I think that most men that tend to look this kind of things are people socially awkward
Thanks the MHO award. I completely agree with you in one point. Guys that are looking at such guys are socially awkward but not only that they also see no chance of personal success and fulfilment living what are people see as the "normal" way. So they look for other ways.
In my fair best opinion. A Sigma male is definitely a lone wolf. But this would be most likely based on his genetics in who he's meant to be. It's nothing to do with joining anything like joining a fitness sports league. Nothing whatsoever.
Then that's called being a wannabe. A sigma male is also a hard worker can be open minded and decisive. Very creative, honest, chilled, focus in his potential, etc. Don't have to be a gymfreak or anything like that. Has nothing to do with a sigma male status. Ain't really hiding himself. Fully have self-awareness from the crowd. Not creepy and strange. Very outgoing. Also chooses the pathway where he wants to be.
A true sigma male doesn't fellow what critics bring about their philosophy over what a sigma male is all about. Which would just recruit again a bunch of wannabes. So that's my honest opinion in describing a sigma male. Hope that's very helpful ☺️
It's so cringe. Funny thing is all these guys listen to these dipshits and pay them money even but still don't get laid or get girlfriends. So if the advice given to me didn't work and didn't help me at all I would stop paying. I would call these guys scam artists.
What's funny is back in college you'd run into these "alpha" douchebags trying to hookup at the clubs and around campus and every woman I know would laugh at them.
SAME OPINION lol. This makes socially awkward men turn into some kind of misogynist who can't get laid because see women like meat... and the worst is that if that doesn't work is not their fault, its the fault of women who doesn't value the "real men". I really feel sorry for those poor guys... I have to say something good and its that it makes the guys take care of themselves and be interested in important things like investing but god... they are so delusional...
Not sure. But it's the same thing with incels and "nice guys." A lot of these wouldn't be bad if they didn't treat women poorly to begin with or have poor intentions. The reason why sigmas, incels, and nice guys don't get dates is because they're complete jerks.
One teacher said to me that he wasn't afraid of the typical bad guy, he was afraid of the shy/quiet guy because they use to be the most disturbing persons, they are filled with a lot of traumas or that kind of shits and tend to accuse other people, in this case, to the other gender...
The whole sigma thing started as a joke, and peopep took it way too serious. Being your own man, having a purpose in life, and following your own path is never a bad thing. But if you get to the point of thinking women are parasites and avoiding them completely, you've taken it too far
It's another dumb word used by males these time for those who have little or no success with women. Just because they don't want to be called beta, which is also incorrect. Alpha in Wolfpacks are the father of the pack. Not the one who get all the women. So it's a family structure, not a dating structure.
Who the hell wants to be a "sigma" male on purpose? Do you not feel something when you see this beauty?
Beautiful busty woman offering a coom jar in prayer to @boobslayer
It's more like we need a rise of caring psychiatrists who should undo the sigmaness of men that are socially awkward. I get it if your mom forced you to kneel and pray for forgiveness for having wet dreams when she saw cumstains on your underwear. But unless you think owning and using a reproductive system is a sin, why wouldn't you? In fact, in our religion we encourage you to collect your coom in a homemade coom jar which acts as a key to unlock the afterlife.
For me it is, in my opinion, they take advantage of men who are socially awkward and give them a vision of the non-existent world in which women are animals to be hunted or even objects... I am ashamed that there are men who believe that that's how a "real man" should behave...
Lmao I don't think there's such a fucking thing at all and it's stupid to think there is.
There are men. If you consider yourself a man, you are a real man.
Whether that means you have a personality, character, or competence is up to you.
But none of that removes manhood someone's identity as a man.
Transmen have a better grasp of their masculinity than any cis man who's never considered his identity before.
Women have nothing to do with a man seeing himself as a man. If he thinks they do, he's not really considering what being "man" means to him. He's putting others and others' perceptions ahead of himself and his reality.
It's an absolute joke. It's like 'nice guys' actually being incels. It's just people creating a superiority complex for themselves because they are less successful than they want in certain things. 'I am just misunderstood' and 'I do it by my own choice' are just to cover up their own shortcomings. It's fine to have shortcomings, it's just stupid to deny that you have them.
I find it hilarious. Guys always pick videos of assholes in movies as examples of how they think they are, but actually are not. It's just one level more deluded than the alpha male bullshit
I fall into the sigma category. I don't think there is a sigma movement and wouldn't join if there was. It wouldn't be a sigma thing to do to be a joiner.
Never heard of this. Sounds like more BS from the red pill crowd.
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These gurus are just soaking up money from lonely guys to support their own lavish lifestyle. I say you should either be the alpha or the omega. If you aren't first in someone's life you might as well be last.
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