Why do men like it when a women cries for/over them?

[Anonymous]

How do they feel and how does it make them feel?

[Anonymous]

It is supposed to soften men and make them ask "are you ok?" ﾠ

[chevy1]

because they know she loves him and would fall on there knees for him it can also make them upset to my ex cryed sometimes if he seen me upset because he felt bad that he cheated and other horrible stuff but then when i was sensitive he would just say your ok I think he didn't want the vibe to break but most of it was his fault for what he done and how boring the relashionship was becoming with him and the emotional abuse and threats but u could see in him sometimes in his face he felt bad but for certain men they like that they are being loved attention and now and then this can lead for some men not all to cheat and know u will remain with him no matter what because you cryed because you love them that much

[BlackBeauty90]

REAL men do NOT like to make their women cry. It makes them feel awful. Just as how a REAL man would not bully or harass or demean others to make himself feel special.

Boys trapped in adult bodies. Abusive assholes, bullies, etc. they LOVE to make women cry for or over them because these people are INFERIOR and it gives them a cheap thrill, it gives them a sense of power, etc. over their women. It feeds their INFERIOR personality and makes them feel better & more special than their TRASHY asses are.

[serious]

Well if a woman cries for a man then it means she misses him and depending on what the man is to her (Friend/boyfriend) it can means that she loves him a lot and everything the man does matters to her.

Yes that makes a man think that he is powerful and someone who has a good impact on her.

[josefff]

Except me lol, I avoid drama and bs if a woman cried in front of me I would give her some time to live and get through her emotions than I would have a rational conversation w her but if she cries like a baby 7/24 well she will not see me again

[RingOfFire]

I would imagine they feel pretty much the same as a woman feels if a man cries for her. Makes you feel that they have very real and deep feelings for you. Maybe one difference is that men tend to not get to the crying state very often. They express their emotions in other ways. Women are expected to cry... it's part of their nature.

[Anonymous]

I don't like it when someone cries at anytime for any reason.

But my guess is he thinks it shows he has some kind of control or power over her. Which may be true. But that doesn't mean she loves him. Imbalanced possessive, and obsessed women cry. So it's just as likely she's just in her head. So the ability to make someone cry doesn't mean you have any power necessarily. But just as likely you're dating a complete headcase.

[Billlewis]

I'd much rather she make me cry than cry over me.

[HelpfulWoman]

thats a fault in the men around you. That is not an accurate representation of men in general.

[strateguy632]

i am male, and don't like that. when she cries for any reason i feel awkward.

[Anonymous]

makes them feel superior. it's the ultimate power move. and it show how awful of a man he is to enjoy it.

[DextroShade]

Men like it because it shows she is emotionally invested in him.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Bc of'er fake pride. ( Speaking as an Angeleno )

[BigDog1989]

Because it shows compassion

[KrakenAttackin]

If she's crying she's lying.

[Reem12345reem]

that's toxic

[jahaims]

I don't