Guys, how long does your crush based on purely physical attraction last?

[Anonymous]

If the crush lasts more than a year, it it still just physical or do you like the person too at that point?

[DaveJord]

So the physical attraction part for a man I mean it never really goes away. Even if you like the girl even if you stop liking the girl you will always be physically attracted to her. That doesn't mean you're going to act on it, but it's not like physically she just turns ugly.

For example I have a very bad habit, but crazy b****** that you know are f****** crazy. Man they are so hot sometimes and the sex is so good but you just know they're crazy. So like she's totally ugly to me in so many ways except that one way. So even though I move on I'm like oh hell no I'll never go back, that doesn't mean that she's not sexy and I'm not turned on by her. And I guess if we could go back and and never have to actually talk to each other. Yeah I would probably never wear off of me, but the second she opens her mouth yeah dude it's over.

The ones that really stop being sexy to me, other ones that seriously never have and never will have any interest in me whatsoever. Yeah I can think they're sexy but I'll look right past them in a crowd like they're invisible because they might as well be to me.

[Avcfhcic]

I usually keep a crush on a girl unless they do something mean or nasty towards me, or I just don't see them anymore.
My last crush was a girl from university, had a crush from the first time I seen her and kept it secret (we were friends). But I had a crush and still do, but we don't talk much anymore so it'll fade.
Another one in school I had for 4 years even with other mini crushes on others in that, I still liked the girl the whole time until school ended

[iseekpinetrees]

Depends if u get to know the person if the likeness changes.

[mayomonky]

not that long. maybe a couple weeks at most

[Asker]

What kind of a crush is it if it lasts more than a year?

[mayomonky]

i think you may just be infatuated with the person. i mean I don't know, are u friends with them or have u just been admiring from afar?

[Asker]

he has been admiring me from afar, asks a lot of questions, makes sure we cross paths often, is basically always trying to get eyefuls of me or giving me compliments on my dress, but he doesn't o come out and say it. I am wondering if he just wants something physical or if he has real feelings for me. if it is just physical, it is a no for me.

[mayomonky]

ohh i see. well it seems like physical attraction thats drawing him in but maybe y'all should break the ice and get to know each other more?

[Jamie05rhs]

If it's an actual crush, then it's probably because I know them personally. If they're a stranger, then I might notice them, but I will eventually forget about them.

As far as crushes go, my crushes used to last a very long time. But that was when I was younger and more impressionable. These days it takes a lot for me to actually develop a crush on someone.

[Keene13]

I like to have the crush forever, as well everything else. Both physical and a deep connection. After a year it's serious, but I still like to get hot thinking about her.

[Asker]

how much of your thoughts are about her when you get a crush and what do you fantasize about other than sex?

[Keene13]

I think of all the things we like to do together. I fantasize about how she makes me feel warm and close. I think of her face and it makes me happy.

[Asker]

thank you for sharing

[Keene13]

Very welcome

[Anonymous]

It could if I see her frequently, but one based on everything else is much stronger.

[Anonymous]

Until I nut. 😆