There is this guy I am having a crush on recently. I was on a hike last week, and this guy who was guiding us was helping people in some places where it’s difficult to walk. It was my turn and he helped me just like everyone else, then he told me to tie my shoelaces so I bended to do so, but he said let me help you, I told him no it’s okay because I was shy ( i am not used to guys doing this) but he was like nooo it’s normal let me help you and he tied them. I never saw him doing this to other girls so I’m not sure about this behavior. Plus, there were a few eye contacts with smiles on other trips and he only talks to me or do eye contacts when there’s nobody around. I actually have a crush on him, so I’m not sure if I’m overthinking things or if it actually means something? What do you think?
You are over thinking it in my opinion. If you were hiking and there were difficult areas to navigate he is probably checking everyone's shoes and other things to make sure that they can safely make it through. I bet he looked at everyone's shoelaces to make sure they were tied. As far as him doing it for you... we're you carrying stuff since you were on a hike? Maybe he didn't want you to have to put everything you were carrying down or something like that. I really don't think it means much of anything. There would be other signs of flirting if he was trying to get your attention.
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Because he's a gentleman. Now, if he did what I've done on a couple of occasions, which is to tie a guy's shoelaces, then you'd probably be correct in thinking he's a weirdo... lol
It's definitely safe to let him know you like him. He at least sounds friendly enough to let you down easy in the worst case scenario. But I think he likes you too.
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It of course means something if he did that only to you
Well, can't say.. maybe others shoe laces were not untied
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