My boyfriend is lovely. He’s 26, I’m 22. We met on a dating app a few months back.
He’s from a different country, and although he is sociable and friendly he doesn’t have many friends here, just a few.
I was speaking to him on the phone tonight. He told me he will be meeting an ‘acquaintance’ tomorrow evening. I asked for more information about who it was as he seemed hesitant to tell me any more, and he told me it was a girl he met on the dating app in February. He’d never mentioned her before this. He said she is about his age and an athlete. Apparently, when they went out (before he met me) they weren’t each other’s type, and now he wants to go out with her tomorrow one on one.
In all honestly I was quite surprised. I’m not sure how I should feel. Is this ok in a relationship?
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i would just leave him and find someone else. It means he didn't find something in you to make him feel serious about you and is still searching the waters.
you might be infatuated at this point and have some feelings, it will hurt but it's not deep in love yet so run while you till can and find the person who is worth your time. No man who is truly interested and invested in you will go out one on one with a woman he tried to date before as a potential partner.
you are young don't waste your years on the wrong person when the signs are evident.
sometimes it happens but it's not so clear. Here it is very clear.
try to find someone else just like he is.
if it's meant to be, then you both will find your ways back to each other.
time flies, don't waste it on the wrong people.
And quite honestly for the Anon asker, I'd take her advice here as well. ☝️
So he basically just told you he's interested in another girl? Then if that's the case the relationship should be ended?
He said they didn’t hit it off and he only sees her as a friend
Personally Anon, I'd see that as a red flag regardless. I understand you care about him, and that's all well and good. Your heart has the right intentions, but I don't believe a man like that will be truly faithful in a relationship with you.
Who's to say because they didn't hit it off, he won't go and try to find a girl that does. What happens to you then in terms of the relationship?
Honey I know from personal experience boys like that are trouble, I can totally respect the love you have for him, but maybe you should consider finding someone who will love you and only you.
Wtf? Unless you are in an open relationship than that dude is s clown.