My crush didn't reply to a simple message?

[SUMZZZ]

I accidently gave a missed call to my crush, then I apologized to which he said its ok, no worries. Then in courtesy i said 'Thanks, Hope you're doing good' and got no reply. I found it very rude as i only greeted him courteously. Did he mean to show me that he doesn't care at all?

[Anonymous]

Why is it that it’s always a man’s fault no matter what he does? You “accidentally” called him, he replied to your initial text by saying it’s ok. Now because he didn’t respond he’s the one who’s in the wrong. He isn’t obligated to respond to you. Everything a man does or doesn’t do hurts women’s feelings. Doesn’t sound like he’s interested. Move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh damn you’re 30 years old, still getting your feelings hurt. Grow up. I thought you were a teenager.

[spartan55]

She likely lied about her age, what a surprise.

[SUMZZZ]

He isn’t obliged to text back i know. My point was if he cared he would have said something like I’m good thanks. And yes he knows about my feelings for him as i confessed him once. So if i happened to text him after a whole YEAR , he could’ve said something nice too.

[SUMZZZ]

I was hurt because he already knew how i feel for him as i confessed to him a year ago. So after a whole year if i interacted with him he could’ve said something nice and ended the conversation politely.

[Opinion Owner]

Just cause you confess your feelings for someone doesn’t mean they have to reciprocate them. If he had responded what would you have thought? You would have probably been happy, thought he’s interested. So you would have been less on in your mind simply because he responded. So maybe he didn’t want to give you that impression. So if your point was if he cared he would have response right? So he didn’t respond so that should have gave you your answer. End of discussion. No blaming him.

[Opinion Owner]

*led on in your mind

[SUMZZZ]

Now your comment makes so much sense. It wasn’t rude of him, it was his way of making me sure that he isn’t interested at all and has nothing to do with me. But i feel so ashamed. Like I’m super embarrassed. Is there anything i can do to make myself feel okay. I am deeply emotional person and it hit me hard, want to delete his number from my phone. Would it help?

[Opinion Owner]

It may help. Just leave it. I don’t want to get your hopes up but maybe he responds later I don’t know. If I was you but thinking as a man I’d delete the number. Whatever you do don’t send another message cause now you just look desperate.

[SUMZZZ]

No no i will never contact him, he has set the boundary himself outrightly. I’ll always respect that. And will delete his number maybe after some time. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[ManOnFire]

That doesn't necessarily mean he was ignoring you. Many people don't say anything else after 'hope you're doing good,' and not even necessarily to be rude but they might take it as a soft ending to a small exchange. If you had've said "How are you doing?" that would be more of an opener to a conversation.

[strawberrybaby3]

If he liked you back he would have continued the conversation.

[SUMZZZ]

I was so stupid :(

[Elinnnor]

You're not stupid, it happens to everyone

[Elinnnor]

He should've found some time to respond. If not, he's lacking manners.

[spartan55]

There was nothing to respond to, she soft closed the conversation.

[Elinnnor]

@spartan55 No , he should ve said Something like:„I am good, thanks". That s the real courtesy You re talking about.

[spartan55]

@elinnnor
Nope, that was the end of the conversation. Courtesy? Please. If some girl is going to get twisted up about this she isn't worth the trouble.

[Elinnnor]

@spartan55 ok , If that is your belief about girls, then I wish you the best luck with them.

[SUMZZZ]

@Elinnnor that’s what I thought. It was so basic.

[SUMZZZ]

@Elinnnor 👍🏻

[SUMZZZ]

@spartan55 he didn’t ask me if i was doing good thats okay but could’ve said anything in response.

[spartan55]

@Elinnnor
I've been around the block a few dozen more times than you, so I hardly need your luck.

[Elinnnor]

@spartan55 ok, If that s what u think🤣

[spartan55]

Says the "30" year old girl...😂 😂

[Elinnnor]

👍👍👍

[Elinnnor]

Spartan55 , You te the only one that „ doesn't worth the time". As You said about girls

[spartan55]

Huh? Yeah, that almost made zero sense.

[Elinnnor]

@spartan55 I was expecting that

[spartan55]

Yeah read it out loud to understand how dumb you sound.

[spartan55]

"Thanks, hope you are doing good" does not require a response. You saying he is being rude is bullshit. Stop creating reasons to get mad.

[Luckycharms12]

He isn't interested or busy and forgot to text back