Is this behavior by my male employer normal?

[Anonymous]

My boss seems like a nice person, especially at first. But as time goes on, I notice that he stares at me from afar and wanders around until he is in my vicinity, where I am working. At first, I wondered if I was doing something g wrong, but I am not sure. The. He would disappear in the bathroom, etc, for a long time until other employees started asking for him. Whenever I am around, he will get on his cell phone and walk around or go outside to talk for a long while. Now, he seems to try to avoid me and acts restless when I am around. I noticed recently that he is barely scheduling me for work. Do you think I may have caused a problem with him without knowing? I get along with all the other employees, and they always ask about me when I don't work.

[spartan55]

Wow, how do you get any work done when you watch your bosses every move. You seem to think that everything he does has to do with you... uh... no.

[Asker]

I have one of those brains where I feel someone watching me and so I look up or look around, and there he is. I get all my work done though. I wasn't talking about everything he does. I was talking about his behavior towards me. He can't even look me straight in the eye when I speak to him. He looks at something else while answering.

[spartan55]

Okay? Him 'being around you' 'being on the phone' how do you know any of it is about you? Nothing significant from what I see.

[Asker]

You seem to be missing the point. Him being on the phone is starting to look more fake. Even if he really was talking to someone, I know it's not about me
And me talking about that is just one of other things i mentioned. It's normal for me to assyme him satring at me for long periods of time must have somethingto do with me. I do get my work done, and properly. I think you don't understand my question at all. If you didn't see anything significant that's nothings wrong with that. Your opinion is one of any. So thank you.

[spartan55]

What am I not understanding about your question? He's your boss, of course he is going to look at you! Why would he fake phone calls? What am I not getting?

[Asker]

Are you triggered by questions like thei e I asked? Are you male or female?

[spartan55]

No, I'm not.

[bingbongbangbung]

Sounds like he's masturbating in the bathroom, thinking about you.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him about it

[Asker]

Not comfortable to ask

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Yeah, that sounds a little sketchy.

[Avicenna]

that is not normal