Guys, Really want to have an affair with my boss- what are the odds?

[Anonymous]

Yes im going to get slated for this but im totally attracted to my married boss (im married too)

He was the one that started the whole thing by flirting, messaging me and everything you can think of to create a tension without massively stepping over a line. Im pretty good at hiding my feelings so he doesn't know im in crazy woman territory.

We have had a few weeks apart and both of us have cooled off and seemed to have entered a friend zone (yes, probably for the best)

Is the possibilty of an affair here over now? If he wanted to, would he have done so already?

Im just really intested in what makes people loose their minds and morals like this as im clearly not myself!

[boggboss]

Lack of self control and lust would be my first thoughts onto of finding ways to justify their actions or make it not seems as bad like how u worded that he was the 1 that started the situation like that changes the fact that what u are doing is bad or makes him worst as for if it will happen guess that depends on if he wants it too

[adam6402]

I don't think this guy made you lose your morals. It sounds like he exposed the fact you never really had them in the first place. If you'd shut him down from the moment he started flirting with you (like every married woman with morals should) then nothing would've developed and you would've never ended up in this lust trap

[tzdc21]

You are really messed up. You need help.

[spartan55]

You are gross.