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Yes... I feel strange and don't want to go into much detail, but... that's the question, what should I do?
Me and my colleague made out, he promised things now he is acting like nothing happened. How should I respond?
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My co-worker and I flirted for almost a month, hooked up, and now he is acting like nothing ever happened.
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Well first off what things did he promise. That would be helpful to know. This is why I don't think getting involved with coworkers is ever a good idea. Now it could be awkward at work. Let's hope it doesn't get that way. There is that saying don't shit where you eat. Well that is what happened. You brought personal emotion into the workplace with a coworker. I say do nothing and hope you can work together without it being a problem. I suppose you could reach out to him but I don't know much about the situation and you said you don't wanna share more.
Okay... we were friends first, spent hours on the phone. I knew most of his daily routine he knew mine. Then I realized I'm attached to him. Obviously he knew. Anyway... one day he just grabbed me, kissed me and stuff. We did that many times. Then I confessed, he sort of did the same. He has always talking about how we can move in together and go here and there. Then one day I got tired of the things not happening and confronted him... he got defensive, reduced touch and... now he is acting like we are just friends and coworkers. I tried many times talking to him, he refuses to talk about that. He is very frustrated at work, we have many problems there. It's affecting his mood and he is blaming me.
Eh yikes. What a mess huh? Well I guess probably the best thing to do is to let things cool off and keep to yourself for a little bit. I think the more you push the worse it will get. Give some space and act like you don't care. What happens a lot of time when a person sees the other person no caring is they think damn maybe I blew it. It is one option you have. Plus it will de-stress you at work not having contact. What do you think?
Do you think we are done... because I'm almost ready to leave if so..
I would say as of the moment if you made the ultimatum it is over. All I am saying is if things cool down there is always the chance you could work it out. Problem is that you have to wait and if it still doesn't work out you could have left. It is a roll of the dice. Do what is best for you.
Do you think he played me?
I mean yeah somewhat. He makes all these promises that sound so great and then that?
I'm confused, because he was and is my friend... showed sings that he really cares... but somehow had narcissistic traits.
I would not toy with a friend
Yeah me either girl. Those are tennager games.
'Promised things'... like what?
Talked about moving in together, going places, doing stuff... and none of that happened
After making out once?
Not once... but it hasn't led to something more... we were friends and still are
How have you been fooling around? Have you had sex?
*how long
Since April this year... plus we've been friends for over two. I don't find it appropriate for him to behave like that since he callied himself a "friend" at least. I mean... you don't hurt your friends feelings, don't ya
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Here it is... Okay... we were friends first, spent hours on the phone. I knew most of his daily routine he knew mine. Then I realized I'm attached to him. Obviously he knew. Anyway... one day he just grabbed me, kissed me and stuff. We did that many times. Then I confessed, he sort of did the same. He has always talking about how we can move in together and go here and there. Then one day I got tired of the things not happening and confronted him... he got defensive, reduced touch and... now he is acting like we are just friends and coworkers. I tried many times talking to him, he refuses to talk about that. He is very frustrated at work, we have many problems there. It's affecting his mood and he is blaming me.
You get played sweetheart...
Don't build hope now