Do you consider it a red flag for a guy to show you attraction but he’s in the talking stage with someone else? Is he a player?

[Anonymous]

Part of me felt like it was too good to be true to begin with. Some parts of me still feels like he’s a good man with many female options. Other parts of me feels a bit self conscious.

This guy low key made me feel a bit more secure and made me feel like it could be genuine until I snooped on his page… he didn’t post her at all but she tagged him in all their photos.. hanging out ect…

When they entered into a relationship he avoided me.

I’m sure he was showing interest in more than one… parts of me felt like he could’ve been it.

[spartan55]

Geez grow up.

[Asker]

Did I say something?

[Asker]

Wrong

[spartan55]

Nope.

[Asker]

I don’t understand

[spartan55]

Stop managing your love life through social media. It's guaranteed failure.

[Asker]

What are you talking about? I don’t think you read

[spartan55]

Yeah, I read it honey.

[Asker]

I was asking if he’s a player

[spartan55]

And I'm saying don't make that judgement based on social media...

[Asker]

Okay, aside from that. They weren’t together yet

[spartan55]

Okay... and?

[Asker]

I was saying that to say I thought he was single… not trying to assessing his relationship.

[spartan55]

You aren't making any sense. Stick to real life.

[Asker]

Okay, where is the confusion?

[spartan55]

You don't write coherently.

[spartan55]

I don't have the energy to parse out this 'talking stage' `player' bullshit. Like I said, stick to real life.

[spartan55]

He's a player, he's not a player... why does it matter?

[Anonymous]

Everyone is player darling don't be so naive...

[Asker]

So he was playing me?

[Opinion Owner]

It's no brainer...
Everyone is player use your mind not heart in relationship sweetheart 😘

[Asker]

Okay but he got jealous tho… that’s why I thought differently

[Opinion Owner]

It's obvious when someone else try to steal your dumb & easy toy then any guy get jealous.

[Asker]

I’ve never paid it attention to it or him.

[Opinion Owner]

Then why this question? Such a darling you're 😘

[Asker]

Because I feel like if he avoided me once they became serious then he isn’t a player?

[Opinion Owner]

Uff ohk he is not a player go n marry him 😘

Don't forget to invite me

[Asker]

…. When he started getting serious with someone he avoided me.

[spartan55]

@asker
You aren't very smart are you?

[Asker]

@spartan55 I understand that’s the right thing to do but nothing happened… I never talked to him or asked for his number