Do you trust your girl at a bachelorette party 🥳?

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Advicewingtwim · Accepted Answer

I wonder if some would say I’m controlling

My girlfriend had one recently and the rule was (and I agreed to do the same).. was basically if a stripper shows up.. leave the house for the hour or whatever amount of time that they have him for.

she agreed and had no issue with that. I did remind her a second time before she left the house which got her slightly annoyed but yeah my bad on that part.

anyways she asked the same as me. Turns out her friends did not get a stripper but my friends DID. I left the house for an hour despite some of my friends getting pushy about me staying.. I messaged my girlfriend that I was out on a walk alone and would return to the party once she left.

I held my end of the deal.. but maybe It’s not right to be how I am?

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

If it was my ex-fiance, who I almost married, no way, lol. But yeah, I would probably trust anyone else. Those parties can get pretty wild, but if I had a girl, I'd want her to have fun. I would never want to weigh a girl down, so I'd have no problem with it.

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

I have only been to one of my friend's bachelorette parties and it was just a night out in a big city. We live about an hour away from a major metro area so we all piled into a couple of cars and went for a night out on the town. Just something different than what we are used to at home. It was really no different than what we would have been doing if we partied where we live. It was going out do dinner and around to bars. It was not what a lot of people think happens at those events. There weren't any strippers or any crap like that. We all went back to our hotel and went to bed at the end of the night. Home the next day. It is nothing to worry about a girl going to a bachelorette party. Trust me.

qupid911 · Accepted Answer

They say bachelorette/bachelor parties is your last night of freedom. It’s not. Your last night of freedom is the day you decide to date. The only thing changing in your relationship is a piece of paper, last name and some legal technicalities. So if trust is an issue, don’t get married. Do something fun that doesn’t involve strippers. Hell, make it a game an “accidentally” run into each other at a bar or club and pretend it’s the first time you’re meeting. Not being able to trust your partner for a single day is taxing

coachTanthony · Answer

Absolutely not. Don't want her running off now with some male stripper lol

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

You shouldn’t be considering marrying a girl who you don’t trust to spend an evening with her best friends…

What kind of girl are you marrying, if you don’t trust her to not overstep the boundaries when she spends time with her best friends?

northerngal · Answer

It does not matter if she is at a bachelorette party or at work... a woman can cheat anyplace. The key is to make her so happy she would never think of cheating. Do that and I am sure she will do the same right back to you.

havingfun2023 · Answer

As I'm always a single, I had to say Results. Just to be a wacky guy 👀👀😋😋🥳🥳 lol. I don't think if I had a girlfriend even, I doubt she come into chicks or other guys. She know I appreciate her whole package, especially the pale skin short height and huge natural tits lol 🥛🥛😋😋 vanilla milkshakes lol. 👏👏 anyways , Results 😄

Miristheiss · Answer

It is irrelevant because I don't accept the concept of bachelorette parties in my relationship. I wouldn't put myself in the position of having to "trust" her. I wouldn't stay committed to anyone who expected to go off to Vegas or out drinking or engaging with strippers etc. That is a relationship boundary. She will not go. If she wants to go to bachelorette parties she can... she just won't be with me.

WhiteSteve · Answer

If I didn’t trust her at a bachelorette party it would just be because I didn’t trust her anywhere. But we wouldn’t be dating if that was the case, so…🤷‍♂️

bluecotton · Answer

100%. I don't think anything would happen. But, honestly, she can do whatever she wants at that party. I'm not a jealous guy at all. Have fun! Enjoy yourself!

lilylangley · Answer

I wouldn’t trust myself at a bachelorette party so why would anyone else trust me.

Anonymous · Answer

As a former male stripper hell no. I've been sucked & fucked by women at bacholrette parties even in from of their relatives and they aren't single.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If I did not trust her absolutely, we would not be engaged.

Constatine · Answer

Yes you should... no is not the answer... no is the wrong answer... no is what your never should answer.

If you get married with her... thrust is number one... if you don't thrust her you should not marry her..

If your ( and she ) are not the one to marry... then you should thrust her enough to let her go to that party..

marish01 · Answer

Any taken girl who has sexual contact during those parties is trash. Any man who allows that is trash too.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If a man can trust his girl with that, it doesn't say much about their future together.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't see the point of bachelorette/bachelor parties.

TallAnon · Answer

If I wouldn't trust her 100%, she wouldn't be my girl

Jazzy54 · Answer

Can she trust  him  at a bachelor party? Such a double standard here:

Bricealan · Answer

Of course. The very pretty girl that cuts my hair went to a bachelorette party, and when the naked guy came up in front of her, with very thin, shorts on, she bit his penis!

I would want my wife or SO to do the same! Big deal!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would trust her. You have to start at some point. If she steps out on you, I am sure you will hear about it at some point and then you can make the decision to fight or flight.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

If you're not trusting your partner at a party, why are you with them?

AviatorTom · Answer

I trust her to have a good time. Might she cave under peer pressure and do something she might regret later? That's up to her.

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