Guys, you say you don't want to be with women that are complainers. What types of things do they complain about that makes you not want to be w/her?

[sage2021]

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Do they ever complain about the things that you do that cause them to complain? During these times, there is a lot of changes in America 🇺🇸 and more to complain about. Who can be up and positive and laughing all the time anymore? Unless they are faking it?

[exitseven]

What would drive me crazy is if I do exactly what she asks and it is still wrong.

If they made a T-shirt about it I can be the only one

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

Complainers are negative in general, which is very off putting. I prefer women who have positive attitudes and personalities. Complaining about anything or anyone, even if it has nothing to do with us and our relationship, is a turn off.

[worldscolide]

It's not complaints so much as constant negativity. Like has a naggy negative attitude with constant criticism. Instant relationship killer.

[Likes2drive]

If it’s the same things it gets annoying, it’s usually about money though or chores

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
What? You take too long to take the trash out?

[Likes2drive]

No, lol , it’s not even something that someone has to tell me, I was a very good husband, I was doing everything but the cooking, she would clean sometimes but seemed like I was doing everything and a full time job but she ended up cheating on me

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
Oh, I didn't know she cheated on you. You do know that happened to me as well.
With this last boyfriend, when we met 7 years ago, he was seeing someone else at the time. Finally he wouldn't choose just one of us. I told him look "You've seen Judy with her clothes off, you've seen me with my clothes off, pick one!
I just don't care if they want to screw someone else. But you better just leave me alone and don't come back. I am faithful and I expect you to be faithful.
He probably would have stayed with Judy longer, but she died. Oh well... It happens.
Sorry you had to go through that. Feels like someone stuck a harpoon in your chest when you first find out. But time is on our side. Right?

[Likes2drive]

Yeah it’s a terrible feeling when cheated on , it’s been 7 years since being divorced, interesting how it’s the same number of years and she married right after

[BLP11520]

Things not getting done fast enough.. I work many hours

[Anonymous]

Complaining without offering solutions is just whining. Try not to do it.

[Opinion Owner]

Fix it, deal with it, move on. Don't dwell in it.