Is he in love or possessive?

[Anonymous]

We just met and…
• Today I saw him as ne when I told him I was going out , he grabbed me and gave me hickies then told me now they’ll know you’re taken.
• Told me that wants to have a baby with me and I will be home without working
• Asked me to take a photo of us and his name and to put on social media.
• Then finish with “You’re mine”

He was in the military maybe that’s why he’s been more and more like that

[IslaTheWitch]

Sounds great to me :D

I like men with this hint od possessiveness.

Possessive men are showing their traits towards people they keep in high regards. So I would risk the opinion, he at least likes you enough to keep the world aware, you are his.

Enjoy! (I will go to cry in envy in some dark corner :D )

[spartan55]

Hint of possessiveness? That's funny.

[Harley1225]

If it’s a man you newly meet for 1 month then this is not a healthy relationship

[ThrillSeeker01]

That's too possessive, in my book. Maybe even insecure.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Chelsdope0]

He’s doing too much

[spartan55]

This is so fake.

[Asker]

Why?

[spartan55]

For some attention? Bored? Hell I don't know.

[Asker]

Dude, I have proof. I really want an advice. Why do I want attention if I’m anonymous. I like this guy because he’s very handsome but I need an advice before I go deep or pull out. I just had this situation today. Have u ever been in love with the perfect match but you have no friends to ask? I have no one. I’m by myself.

[spartan55]

Okay, I'll play along. If your age is correct I find it VERY odd that someone your age fails to see the red 🚩 flags here. If you need me to help you let me know.

[Asker]

I only had one formal relationship for 8 years with a man who’s 7 years older than me and you know what? He’s a very hard working man, faithful, and innocent who’s shy to defends himself. That’s why I broke up with him. Aside from that my mom never allowed me to go out. I’m not innocent but after my ex , I had someone who broke my heart and I became cold. I hate to say it but I’m dumb I’m the dating game because of my luck of experience. I don’t know what’s normal and what’s love because I became cold. This guy is a few years younger than me but I’m person we look the same age. He did told me the hickies were on porpuse and his becoming more like this every time (I don’t know what to call it) he does spend time after sex, doesn’t text or call frequently , we don’t see that often because he works almost everyday in his two jobs. I don’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️ if it’s a normal behavior. I feel dumb that’s why it’s anonymous because again my parents never allow me to have friends I just read and think bad just by watching others.

[spartan55]

How long have you known him/been seeing him?

[Asker]

A month.
My ex proposed immediately and we lasted 8 years. That’s why I’m not sure to trust or not. I know it’s too soon that’s why I ask. He just told me he wants to get me pregnant and everything I mentioned previously

[spartan55]

Okay, NONE of what that guy is doing is normal or okay. You can't love someone in a month's time. You don't even know each other!

[Anonymous]

It certainly seems like he is.