- He was never shy in front of me but whenever he say he talk in soft and low voice to me. I also caught other boys to stare but they dont behave like him they are only polite because i was too to everyone.
- Once he was staring at me with a dreamy face while smiling i thought he stare at other but when i realise it was me i make a what face he nodded as nothing and continue this, so i ignore him.
- We meet after covid and its 2yrs our school open aftercovid, he stare at me for this 2yrs daily (we are in 11th grade now and he was still my classmate) he was my classmate since childhood buthe never do such thingbefore
- Yesterday i caught him staring at me with the straightand innocentface he make daily (he have features which make his face look innocent which he was not actually) so i ignore.
- I saw him doing this everyday almost anytime.
- He only do such things to mehe mostly teases other girls but never dare to do this with me because i talk with everyone normally but (i look friendly and bubbly only to my girls classmate, and dont talk to boys unnecessarily like other girls do and if need to talk i didn't smile and talk with emotionless face)And he know thiswell because he stare at me and malewho talk to me.
- He was protective to me against other boys last year but not now because i make myself little bold from the last year (i didn't say anything in excuse and wait till they move aside thenself but now i excuse them) so he also didn't notice , but show his care like -once we accidently bump (he was little well built because he play sports and almost 5'10) i was just prevent myself from falling and hurt my waist with the desk but we both say sorry and he was look at my eyes i was in hurry at that time so i left after sometime he ask me if i hurt so much (which i was) but i nodded as no.
- He do several things in my support but i was confused why he only do this to me can't he find other girl.
- He was extrovert and say without hesitation so if he want to say why he didn't.
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Sometimes he do childish things to me like if we are returning to our class from somewhere he run and went first to the class than stare at me , and do this kinds of things.(Mostly, people tell that i was pretty but i didn't consider myself) I was not pretty to look so why mostly he and other boys too stare at me, i mostly see my physics teacher who was young, not married stare at me too (i was also teased by other girls and i also scold them cauz i'm not that type of girl who charm males)
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I posted this question once or twice but mostly replied he likes me , is he really? When he stare at me i ignore and never pass smile because i dont want he think something wrong about me (and also have my image at the school as a good student so i dont want to spoil)
please share ur opinions and advice.
Thank u💖
please share ur opinions and advice.
Thank u💖
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Woah, sounds like this guy definitely has a thing for you! Staring at you dreamily every day for 2 years straight is not something guys do platonically. And being so protective of you shows he cares about you in a way beyond just classmates.
It's clear you intrigue him because you're not like all the other girls who fawn all over boys. You keep to yourself more which makes you a challenge and mystery to him. That innocent look he gives is probably just him trying to hide how he really feels so he doesn't scare you off.
He might not have outright said anything because 1) he's shy around you specifically since you're not super friendly, and 2) he's worried you don't see him that way so he doesn't want to embarrass himself.
Honestly if I were you I'd give this guy a chance. He clearly really likes you and has for a long time. Who knows, you might end up enjoying his attention once you get to know him better! At least you'll get some answers about why he's so obsessed with you. Just talk to him calmly and see what's up. What's the worst that could happen?
Thanks for sharing ur opinion☺. once we have minor argument i apologize but he didn't (its all his mistake in the matter) he only say its okay i didn't need to say sorry he didn't mind with a smile.
I was just confused if he talk to other girls frankly why he didn't do to me.
Hmm it sounds like he definitely has a soft spot for you if he reacted that way after your argument. Guys can get shy around girls they like sometimes, so that could be why he acts differently with you than other girls.
It's possible he likes you but doesn't want to fully admit it yet or make a move in case you don't feel the same way. We can get scared of rejection. When I like a girl, I sometimes act kind of awkward and don't know what to say.
The smiling and not needing an apology from you even though he was in the wrong is a sign he didn't want you to be upset. That's a good sign he cares what you think of him.
If I were you, I'd pay attention to little things like that - how he acts when you're around vs others. And don't be afraid to talk to him more to see how he responds. Getting to know each other better could help you figure out if there's something more there or not. But don't rush it if you're still unsure how you feel. Hope this helps give you some insight into what might be up with him!
Thank u again🙂
Once we have test i already completed i saw he was asking his friends he was about to turn his face but when he notice me he again stare at face with blank expression (before i say sorry) next day i again caught him 3 times and he just smile while staring at that time (after the day i say sorry for that argument) he see i didn't smile so why he trying himself that much.
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Hmm, the staring with a blank expression and then smiling when he sees you notice him staring is another sign he's interested. Boys don't usually keep doing that to girls they're just friends with.
It seems like when you apologized for the argument, it maybe made him feel more comfortable smiling at you instead of just staring blankly. Like it broke some of the awkwardness between you two.
The fact that he keeps trying to get your attention and meet your eyes even when you don't smile back shows he's putting in some effort. Guys usually only do that when they really like a girl.
It's sweet that he wants to see you smile at him too. Maybe next time try giving a little half smile back just to be friendly, and see how he reacts. No pressure to do more if you're still unsure how you feel.
But his behavior does seem to indicate he fancies you. Up to you if you want to find out for sure or just stay classmates. Either way, don't overthink it - just follow your heart! Let me know if any other questions come up.
clearly friend zone look for someone else
at your age under 18 i must add "friend zone differs from going steady". as age appropriate.
Thank u for sharing ur opinion🙂 but sorry i didn't get the point