Trying this again - do you men think he just doesn’t care?

[Anonymous]

I know I shouldn’t care…but I do. Guy I was dating for 6 months - I found out he was talking to other females when he told me he wasn’t. I stormed out, and ended things, I was hurt.

He hasn’t contacted me, doesn’t seem to care - won’t even look at my posts on social media. Im 27, he’s 32 - do you guys do this when you don’t want to show you care? or do you think it’s Genuine that he really doesn’t care about me? I’m sad my time seems wasted.

[SueShe]

He may be 32 but actually acts like a teenager. That is a demonstration of childish behavior, toxic personality and absolute lack of maturity.

He seems to willingly want to hurt your feelings and in my opinion, it really shows that caring is not part of his assets.

He is probably upset that you found out that he lied despite him telling he is not and he displays a typical reaction of a reprimanded child. He actually wants you to pay for what he did to you as he has the feeling that you restrict his freedom.

He also did not expect you to end things and he is now in a dilemma. Either he shows that he cares and comes back but that also would signify that he must recognize that he acted wrongly.

[Asker]

Woah this response is awesome. That’s exactly how it comes off. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny, but ran around the question multiple times - I definitely caught him off guard. I plan on standing my ground, I usually give in with ex’s and write them…but this one seems to have severe mommy issues that I cannot deal with. On top of not caring enough about me…I think with some time I will be able to let it go.

32 - hasn’t been in a serious relationship in years…realizing those red flags should have been taken more seriously on my end.

[SueShe]

Despite the fact that this is a sad story, I am glad for you that you realized that he is not worthy of you.

[Nice222]

I think he knows there is no future so he is not going to put anymore effort into it. He pretty much doesn’t care.

[spartan55]

He doesn't even think about it anymore.

[RavVid]

I would think he doesn't care.

[Avicenna]

That behavior indicates he doesn't care